u/OkPreference744

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Konni feelings ki words dorakavu

evarikaina bad day unte, first text nake vasthadhi. Hours vinta, comfort chestha, it will be okay ani cheptha.I'll be there for them.

Kani funny thing enti ante nenu baagolekapoyina, adige vaallu chala takkuva untaru

Konni rojulu ala untayi. Smile estha, normal ga matladtha, jokes kuda vestha kani lopala matram oka war nadusthuntadhi. Cheppali anipisthundi but malli anipisthundi, endhuku ebandhi cheyadam? Vallaki already chala untayi ankunta.So nene silent ga carry chestha.

Sometimes I wish someone would ask me twice. Endhukante I'm fine nijam kaadhu ani evaraina gurthisthe bagundu.

Koni emotions ni nene convince cheskunta, this too shall pass ani .Kani konni nights matram chala long anipisthayi.

The hardest part isn’t being alone. It’s carrying everything by myself and acting like it’s not heavy.

I just don’t want my feelings to become another responsibility for someone else. So Im okay ani cheppadam easy anipisthundi even when I’m not.
The worst feeling? Room full of people unna kuda nenu matram naa thoughts tho okadhanne fight chesthunna feeling.

I keep making sure everyone around me is okay but sometimes I wonder how it would feel if someone looked at me and genuinely ask, nuvvu ela unnav? Nijanga.

Maybe that’s why the people who listen to everyone are usually the ones who stay the quietest about their own pain.

Maybe I don’t need someone to fix everything. Maybe I just want someone who’ll sit with me for a while and make me feel like I don’t have to carry everything alone.

Until then I’ll probably keep saying Im fine ,hoping one day someone hears the silence behind those words.

If you’re that person too I hope one day you find someone who listens to you the way you’ve always listened to everyone else because even the strongest hearts deserve a safe place to rest.

u/OkPreference744 — 7 hours ago

Enti ra ee badha

Some friendships don’t end with a fight they just slowly fade away.

Sometimes I wonder if we all knew this would happen ,would we have held onto those moments a little tighter?

Appudu bell ring avvagane lunch box share cheskovadam, random ga okari intiki okaru vellipovadam ,random conversations, silly fights that lasted five minutes, laughing over things that don’t even make sense now , avanni appudu normal anipinchevi. We never stopped to think, one day this will be a memory.

It’s funny how we thought we’d always stay this close. Manam eppatiki friends eh ani entha confident ga cheppevallamo.Its bittersweet.

Life gets busy. People change ,move away, get caught up in college, work, responsibilities, and new circles. Conversations that once happened every single day slowly turn into we should catch up sometime.Then weeks become months, and before you know it, you’re scrolling past someone’s chat thinking, it’s been so long.
The saddest part isn’t that we became strangers.
It’s realizing that one day was the last day we laughed together, the last day we walked home together, the last random conversation we’d ever have and none of us knew it was the last.
I miss the friendship more than the person sometimes.The version of myself that laughed a little louder, worried a little less and believed everyone would stay forever but maybe that’s what growing up is.
Maybe it’s about being grateful that, even if only for a little while, our paths crossed and they made those years feel a little brighter.
Konni friendships mana life lo chapters laga untayi. Chapter ayipoyindhi ani story baledhu ani kaadhu. It just means they were meant to be a beautiful part of it.

Thnxx for reading it y'all.

u/OkPreference744 — 1 day ago

Love ?

Love ante race kadhu kadha ?
Ee madhya ekkadiki vellina couples eh kanipisthunnaru. College lo , Insta lo, literally everywhere 😭
Appudappudu anipisthadhi andharu relationships lo unnara? Am I missing something?
Inka funny part entante if I say im not dating anyone immediate ga ,why ? seriously? you don’t like anyone ? Antaru .Bhaiya enti ra ee interrogation?
Honestly, I’d rather wait than get into a relationship just because everyone else is. Relationship ante trend kaadhu, fomo kadhu, time pass kuda kadhu.I’d rather find the right person than date someone just because I don’t want to be the only single person in the room.
Mana teen years once eh osthayi . I feel like this is the time to dream big, make mistakes, discover who we are, build our confidence and slowly become the person we’ve always wanted to be.Passions,career, friendships, family, learning new things masthu unnay etla there’s so much life to live before making someone else the center of it.
Sometimes I think, before finding the right person, maybe we should first become the right person.
Also,love ante stories post cheyyadam, matching pfps pettukovadam matrame kaadhu. It’s finding someone who feels like peace, understands you and grows with you.Someone you don’t have to pretend around. Someone who chooses you even when life gets messy yk .
If waiting means meeting someone who truly understands me, respects me and grows with me then honestly, I don’t mind waiting at all lol.

Am I the only one who feels this way ?😭 Or does anyone else also think waiting for the right person is way better than dating just because of pressure or fomo?

Thnx for reading my sodhi y'all !

u/OkPreference744 — 2 days ago

Endhuku etla huh

Share some advices yall 😭
I know andharu busy untaru. College, studies, family etc untayi we get busy and I completely get that.
Kani active ga online lo untu, stories upload chesthu, group chats lo matladuthu mana message matram read lo pettesi hours or even days reply ivvakapothe, konchem hurt avvadam normal kadha?
I’m not asking for instant replies. Oka busy unna ,tharvatha matladutha ani message aina chaalu. But repeated ga read lo pettesthe, are we friends anymore ane doubt automatic ga start aipothundi.
Sometimes it feels like friendship is becoming one sided. Nuvve effort peduthunnav, nuvve check in chesthunnav and slowly you stop knowing where you stand in their life .
Ever happened to anyone here ? If yes, how did you deal with it without taking it to heart?

u/OkPreference744 — 3 days ago

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Sometimes I wonder if being a teenager was always supposed to feel this heavy 😭😭
It’s not just school or college .It’s carrying a hundred thoughts in your head while pretending you’re okay. Every time one exam ends, another one is already waiting. It feels like you’re constantly running, but somehow you’re still scared like you’re falling behind . Am I doing enough?ane question almost every roju mind lo untundi obvvv.Endho guys koni sarlu edusthane badha pothadhi .
Then there are friendships. Some people who once knew every little thing about your day slowly become strangers. No fights, no drama just silence anthe .Conversations become shorter, replies become dry and one day you realize you’ve stopped expecting that notification. People don’t always leave loudly sometimes they just slowly fade away.
Competition is everywhere. Endhi bhaiyaa oka rohju kuda prashanthanga undadhu . Mali aa marks , ranks and careers anta .Everyone seems to be moving ahead. Social media makes it look like everyone has their life figured out while you’re still trying to survive one week at a time. Comparison starts stealing your peace without you even noticing.nen kuda atla ne unde le haha.
Future gurinchi tensions mali ,expectations, fear of disappointing people it all piles up. Some nights I just stare at the ceiling thinking, will everything ever be okay? and somehow, the next morning, you still get up and do it all over again.
But maybe that’s what strength actually looks like. Not having everything figured out but choosing to keep going anyway. Even on the days when your heart feels tired, you’re still here. You’re still trying and maybe that’s enough for today.If anyone’s feeling the same ,you got this ! Don’t give up.

u/OkPreference744 — 3 days ago