u/Ok_Combination8979

I’m 26, had a 10cm myoma which was removed via an open myomectomy procedure 5 weeks ago. I had penetrative sex yesterday for the first time after the procedure. It was uncomfortable, it did hurt a bit, but I wouldn’t say it was painful. It also did not hurt after the deed, however, I bled 8 hours later. I’m assuming it is my period since I am on the 27th day of my cycle, but I’m still scared that it is internal bleeding due to sex. However it really does seem like my normal period. I couldn’t ask my doctor since she is a bit judgy but I saw her today and she did my pelvic exam, she didn’t say anything was wrong. What do you think? Is sex 5 weeks post op safe?

I’m 27, and I just feel really lost as a Biology graduate and now working in a completely different field.

For context, I took up Biology in hopes of becoming a doctor someday. I was in college when pandemic happened—my dad lost his job, and it really drained our savings because they had to pay for our college tuition fees. Having experienced financial distraught like that made me decide not to enter med school na lang. I was also able to get a job in a different field, Finance, and I’ve been in the same job for nearly 4 years now.

I’m grateful for my job, I’m also grateful they took their chance on me kahit bio graduate ako, but I’m not getting paid that much despite the fancy looking title. I also live in Makati where the cost of living is quite high for my salary. Now I want to change my job, but I feel like walang tumatanggap sakin in this industry because, idk maybe they are choosing an individual with a finance degree? I just feel so defeated esp when I reached the final stage of interview in a company I really wanted to work in, just for them to reject me after the final interview.

I’m just so lost. I’ve been trying to apply to different jobs but I keep getting rejections. Is it because of my undergrad? Idk. Anyone who experienced the same dilemma and got through it?

I’m 27, and I just feel really lost as a Biology graduate and now working in a completely different field.

For context, I took up Biology in hopes of becoming a doctor someday. I was in college when pandemic happened—my dad lost his job, and it really drained our savings because they had to pay for our college tuition fees. Having experienced financial distraught like that made me decide not to enter med school na lang. I was also able to get a job in a different field, Finance, and I’ve been in the same job for nearly 4 years now.

I’m grateful for my job, I’m also grateful they took their chance on me kahit bio graduate ako, but I’m not getting paid that much despite the fancy looking title. I also live in Makati where the cost of living is quite high for my salary. Now I want to change my job, but I feel like walang tumatanggap sakin in this industry because, idk maybe they are choosing an individual with a finance degree? I just feel so defeated esp when I reached the final stage of interview in a company I really wanted to work in, just for them to reject me after the final interview.

I’m just so lost. I’ve been trying to apply to different jobs but I keep getting rejections. Is it because of my undergrad? Idk. Anyone who experienced the same dilemma and got through it?