I just want honest and open-minded opinions right now or skip
I’m in a relationship rn and genuinely feel VERY in love, and him too, we both know how rare real love is this generation and tbh he’s the best man ever he treats me exactly how every girl wants to be treated and I do my best for him too. (Ofc we fight sometimes but that’s literally normal in every rls, but were both deflecting and trying to grow together in order to keep maintaining a very healthy rls!)
We’re both in our twenties (scale 23), he studies medicine, so graduating and building his career will still take more few years if it was possible right now, he would already come ask for my hand officially.
Lately, I’ve been thinking about giving him my virginity because I truly want him to be my first, and what we have feels very special and unique to me (before i was against it)
Its ofc smth that he always wanted but instead of pushing me, he told me he’s mostly worried about me emotionally la79ach he knows I overthink a lot, so he’s scared that later I might think things like: “What if he’s only staying because he took my virginity?” or “What if I regret it one day?” He told me it’s a huge decision and that I should take more time to think carefully.
Personally, I really want to do it, but I’m scared because of the cultural perspective, I know life is unpredictable.
What if we don’t end up together one day? What if something happens? Sometimes I start thinking would nobody want to marry me anymore just because I’m not a virgin?
And before anyone starts bringing religion into it: I’m religious myself, so please let’s not turn this into that kind of debate there are plenty of people who pray all day, post Quran verses nonstop, act super religious publicly, and still have really ugly hearts and envy others.
So pls let’s keep the discussion respectful and human instead of judging instantly.
I genuinely want to discuss this openly and maturely I just want honest and open-minded opinions right now
Ps: we do everything except penetration