Dormmate keeps bringing her boyfriend over, am I being unreasonable?
Okay, need opinions kasi baka ako lang yung maarte 😭
I share a dorm room with a few other students, and one of my dormmates has been bringing her boyfriend over pretty frequently. I don’t really care na may boyfriend siya, pero ang issue is halos every other day nandito siya, sometimes hanggang late at night.
At first hinahayaan ko lang because I don’t want to be that roommate na parang bawal magkaroon ng visitors. Pero lately parang nawawala na yung feeling na shared space siya. Minsan gusto ko lang magpahinga or mag-aral nang tahimik pero may ibang tao sa room na hindi ko naman roommate.
I haven’t confronted her yet kasi ayoko maging awkward for the rest of the semester. I’m also wondering if I’m actually being unreasonable since technically naman friend niya yung boyfriend niya and hindi naman siya gumagawa ng anything directly against me.
For those who share dorms, what’s a reasonable
boundary when it comes to bringing partners over?