u/Outrageous_Egg_3286

I'm 30 starting medical school soon. My prior career allowed me to save and accumulate a stock portfolio of ~$1.2M. No debt and all med school tuition expenses are covered from my 529 plan.

I'll have small income from a part-time gig that I do virtually(~$1200/mo) and plan to continue throughout the first 2 years of med school prior to clinical rotations, but will be relying on drawing from my portfolio for a majority of my living expenses.

By my math I'm CoastFIRE and the monthly draw doesn't stress me out too much, but I'm also not trying to be reckless and am torn between leaning on the frugal side vs spending more towards quality of life.

Here are my options:

**Option 1 — Live with roommate, $1,895/mo (2bd)**

Walking distance to campus, gym, tons of cafes/restaurants nearby. Roommate is a friend, easygoing, no issues. Just the usual roommate tradeoffs (can't fully control the space, have to coordinate guests, not truly independent, especially at 30 this does play a small but present factor)....But cost is reasonable and they're a known quantity.

**Option 2 — Live alone, $2,750/mo (1bd)**

Same building, walking distance to campus, gym, tons of cafes/restaurants nearby. Full independence. ~$855/mo more than option 1, ~$33k/year. Financially feasible but the cost is definitely reaching premium territory. I'm conscious that I might be romanticizing the solo apartment, but I also think the freedom to decompress fully, have people over freely, and have my own sanctuary during what will be an intense 4 years might hold some real value and improve my quality of life during this time. I am inherently frugal though and do feel guilty for spending this amount of money, especially this early on when it could be invested and compounded for the future.

**Option 3 — Free housing, but at home with parents**

Back home with family (basement of parents' house). Saves everything but loses the walkability and independence that feel important to me at my age and this stage in life. Commute is about a 35 minute drive to campus, but can get upwards of 1hr+ during peak traffic either in the morning or during rush hour.

Walkability is a big plus to me whether it's walking distance to campus, the gym, and a good social/food scene. That's a quality of life factor especially during the grind of med school that I think will be worth spending extra for.

So my question is which of these three options would you pick, and is going with option 2 over option 1 just lifestyle creep? Or is it a no brainer to take the free housing with parents if given the opportunity?

Appreciate any perspective. Thank you

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