


The state of Filomena’s door is the key to the case
This is a long post but bear with me. It’s worth reading to the end.
Part 1: The Context of the Day (November 1st)
What Meredith Knew About Her Roommates
Because November 1st was a public holiday (All Saints' Day), the Italian roommates had made plans. Based on the established timeline, Meredith would have expected to be the only one home when she returned later that evening.
Regarding Laura Mezzetti: Meredith almost certainly knew Laura was out of town. Laura had planned a trip to visit her family in Montefiascone for the long weekend. Because this was a pre-planned, multi-day holiday trip, her absence was established common knowledge in the house. Meredith would have last seen Laura on October 31st or very early on November 1st.
Regarding Filomena Romanelli: Meredith knew Filomena was leaving the cottage for a local holiday festival with her boyfriend, Marco. While it is unconfirmed in the court record if Filomena explicitly told Meredith she would not be returning to sleep there that night, Meredith's own plans for the evening were likely influenced by the fact that the house would be empty.
The Kitchen Conversation & The "Implausibility" Argument
Sometime in the early afternoon of November 1st, Amanda and Meredith had a conversation in the kitchen.
Amanda's Account (Nov 4 Email): > "I got home and she was still asleep, but after i had taken a shower and was fumbling around the kitchen she emerged from her room with the blood of her costume (vampire) still dripping down her chin. We talked for a while in the kitchen, how the night went, what our plans were for the day. Nothing out of the ordinary."
The Argument: It is highly implausible that in discussing their plans for the day, Meredith didn’t tell Amanda that she knew both Laura and Filomena were out for the night. Because Meredith’s plans were influenced by the fact her friends were out, she likely would have mentioned it. Furthermore, if Amanda told Meredith her own plans to stay at Raffaele's apartment, Meredith would have explicitly known she was going to be home alone that evening, making it highly likely this was communicated between the two of them during their chat.
Part 2: The Morning Discoveries & Door Inconsistencies (November 2nd)
When examining Amanda and Raffaele’s statements regarding the status of the doors on the morning of the discovery, significant contradictions emerge. The narrative surrounding Filomena's door, in particular, shifts dramatically depending on who is telling the story and which visit is being described.
The Timeline of Filomena's Door
State: Closed. Amanda stated in her Nov 2nd deposition and Nov 4th email that she saw Filomena's door closed, using this to justify her assumption that Filomena was inside sleeping.
State: Ajar. In Raffaele's Nov 2nd deposition, he stated that Amanda explicitly told him the door had previously been ajar (partially open) to excuse why she couldn't see clearly inside to notice the ransacked room.
- The Return Visit (Approx. 1:00 PM) When Amanda and Raffaele returned to the cottage together.
State: Closed (and opened by Amanda). Amanda claimed in her Nov 2nd deposition that the door was closed when they arrived, stating under oath: "First I opened the door to Filomena's room," at which point she claimed they discovered the broken window together.
State: Closed (and opened by Raffaele). Contradicting Amanda's deposition, Raffaele wrote in his memoir, Honor Bound, that the door was closed, but he was the one who physically pushed it open.
State: Wide Open. Contradicting both his own later book and Amanda's deposition, Raffaele's initial Nov 2nd statement claimed that when they entered the apartment, Filomena's door was already completely "wide open."
Part 3: The Evidence
- "Furthermore, the room used by Filomena had the door wide open, it was in disarray and had the window completely open... Amanda seeing this, told me that she had not noticed this previously as the door of the aforementioned room was ajar and did not allow her to see what was inside."
- Raffaele’s Book, Honor Bound:
- "...Amanda also found Meredith's door closed, which was unusual. She knocked, but nobody answered. Was she asleep? Or away? Amanda didn't quite know what to think." (He later states in the text that it was he who ultimately opened Filomena's door upon their return).
"As soon as we arrived inside the house, I left the mop in the entrance and I went towards the other rooms so I could see what the hell had happened. I remember those moments well because I was agitated and alarmed. I think I saw Amanda take the mop bucket and carry it to another room. The first thing I noticed was that Filomena's (called Molli) room had the door wide open."
There is no excuse for Raffaelle misremembering this. He himself says he remembers those moments well. His memory is not to blame for the inconsistencies here. Raffaelle tells us so himself.
Part 4: The Logical Contradictions
To believe Amanda’s narrative of that morning, one must accept a highly convoluted series of behaviors and a physical anomaly regarding the doors:
The "Knock but don't check" Logic Gap: According to Raffaele's book, Amanda knocked on Meredith's door during her first visit. This means she was actively inquiring about the status of the room and was prepared to wake up a sleeping person. Yet, after making a noise explicitly intended to wake Meredith up and getting no response, she did not try the handle to see if it was locked.
The Special Treatment of Doors: Amanda claims she found blood, feces, and an open front door. If Filomena's door was also closed (as Amanda initially claimed), why did she knock on Meredith's door to check on her, but completely ignore Filomena's and Lauras? That she ignored their rooms shows that she doesn’t think there is a possibility that Filomena, or Laura, are in the house sleeping. So why does she think Meredith is both sleeping and outside the house? She thinks Meredith is asleep, therefore there is no other person who Amanda thinks could have gone to take the trash out. This is the moment where the alarm should have been raised that there was a break in. Instead, Amanda proceeds to the small bathroom, sees all the blood, thinks it’s both Meredith’s period blood and that there has been an accident simultaneous, but then proceeds to use the bathmat to sashay to her bedroom and back. Or doesn’t, depending on which version of the story she tells.
The "Ajar" Contradiction: Raffaele claimed Filomena's door was wide open when they returned, and that Amanda excused her earlier failure to notice the ransacked room by saying the door had previously been ajar. If the door was ajar, it means Amanda thought Filomena had the potential to be awake. Why inquire about a closed door where she assumes someone is asleep, but ignore an ajar door while actively investigating an alarming scene?
The Quantum State of Filomena's Door: Ultimately, for their combined narrative to work, Filomena’s door must exist in a quantum state of being simultaneously closed (Amanda's deposition), ajar (Amanda's excuse to Raffaele), and wide open (Raffaele's discovery), while also being simultaneously opened by Amanda, opened by Raffaele, and already open on its own. If the door was open when Amanda first when in to the flat, she would have seen the broken window and immediately understood there was a burglary and raised the alarm, which she didn’t do. So the state of Filomena’s door is incredibly important to Amanda’s narrative that she is telling the truth. Because if she saw the door open and didn’t raise the alarm, it is damning.
Both of them have managed to cover every hypothetical state of the door. There is nothing left out (apart from Amanda seeing it wide open, either time, hmmmm)
The conclusion
Someone is lying about something.
Either the door to Filomena’s room was open, and Amanda saw the broken window and lied about it, or Raffaelle lied about the door being open (He can’t have misremembered because of his paticularly good memory that morning according to him).
Amanda is lying about opening the door, or Raffaelle is lying about opening the door.
Raffaelle is lying about finding the door open or closed.
Amanda prioritises doing her hair in a bathroom with a big smelly sh*t in it, than investigating and knocking on other doors, or calling the police or her friends mobiles.
At no point while she is in the house, or walking back to Raffaelle’s, or mopping up Raffaelle’s floor, or eating breakfast with Raffaelle, does she consider to
1. Call the police
2. Call Meredith
3. Call Filomena
4. Call Laura
When she returns with Raffaelle, she is incredibly thorough in her search of the rooms and does a sweep through every single one. Why didn’t she do it before?
IT. IS. A. LIE!!
Case closed. Amanda and Raffaelle are both liars, and the only concieveable reason they would be lying is to protect themselves in this situation because they were present during the murder.