me and my boyf are planning to run away and marry
basically i'm a muslim and he's a brahmin. So ofc our parents are completely against our marriage they have even threatened him with his life. We are very scared rn but we know we can't live here like this without each other.
Currently we are planning to elope after a month, cause we need money to elope, so i work at a parlor in jaipur and i earn 20k per month while he works at some IT joints so he earns 40k. Total is 60k per month
So if we elope to some bigger city the rent might likely be 30k and to set everything up our entire salary will go away. Guys tell us genuinely after how much time will be able to become financially stable or will we require loans? My boyfriend is a crazy car head and is always got no through spinny to check for good deals but i think if we elope he won't be able to buy a car for the next 3-4 years. I'm juat thinking out loud if we should really elope or not cause financial stability is a concern. No i am not a gold digger and i really love him but i want to see him happy with his dreams too