What helped me
I use to have about 9-10 standard drinks a weekend and now I only have 3 standard drinks once a weekend
The big part that helped me the most was whenever I go to the store to get drinks, I only choose 2 singles, I don't buy cases or leave any additional drinks in the house. Even if I were to have any additional drinks, I now have the ability and strength to stop at 2 because I got so use to this strategy. It worked for me at least
It even takes me 4 hours to finish just 1 now and sometimes I don't bother with the second because it's already too late to open the other one. So slow pacing can help too and filling up with water.
I like my cut down pattern. I'm skipping this weekend just because I don't really feel up for it. My drinks will be saved in my fridge for my future next social hour