u/Perfect_Structure376

Hi yall! Recently I had a client after a long field lab (I’m a hydrogeology student). I came as I always do prepared and ready to start the day. After talking with mom for a bit she asked me how my day was and I told her about my lab outside. She offered me a glass of water. I was really inclined to take it but didn’t due to fear of a reprimand. What do yall think?

Update!

Yall your comments made me laugh so hard! Next time I will graciously accept the water. Coming from being in this field and worrying about BCBAs and the power they hold over us is nerve racking. I appreciate all of y’all’s advice and it gave me some confidence. The company that I had previously worked at did not allow us to accept anything even water. I have thankfully left that company and love the current company I work for now.

Hello! Recently I got notification that my services were being paused for a more part time client. I have the option to take on a more full time client that is closer to me. Should I take on this new client? I feel bad for possibly having to get off this case but I’m worried if I wait around for news then Id be burning a hole in my pocket waiting for this case. What do yall think? Do insurance companies reconsider?

So I work with a higher functioning middle school kiddo. He's an alright kid however he throws insults at me when he gets frustrated. He says mean things to me all the time. His mom is also bilingual and so is he. I don't mind them speaking another language however, I can hear my name in their conversation and I can watch his behavior change. If I say one thing this kiddo will turn to his mom and ask for her direction instead. This kiddo is pretty reactive and I don't feel safe to be around him alone. I just can't help but feel anger when I get off of me shift. Any tips?

Update
Thank you all for your advice. Here are my next steps.

I am going to have an honest conversation with my kiddos mom and my BCBA during my next supervision.

I am going to try and implement the ACT method and I will try and pinpoint where his insults are coming from and what he's feeling when he says them.

If y'all have any more advice please feel free to add! This has been so helpful❤️