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Laziness in Sikhi.

Being lazy in Sikhi is not good. Sikhi is built from many factors and when these come together, they make a person spiritually and physically strong — I would even say unbreakable. But there are many parts to Sikhi, not just one or two.

The main things we all know are Bani and Naam Simran, and every Sikh should have these in their life. But this is where many of us stop and think Sikhi only goes as far as reading Bani and doing Simran, when in reality it does not.

For a Sikh to build a strong foundation in Bani and Naam Simran, they should also do other things they enjoy, as long as they are within Gurmat — and honestly, 90% of normal healthy things are. Playing sports, going into nature, walking, exercising, staying active — all of this matters too.

Doing things and not becoming lazy is very important.

When Kalyug met Guru Nanak Dev Ji, he tried to scare Guru ji, thinking he was like ordinary people. But he realised Guru Nanak was Akaal Purakh Himself. As Bhai Gurdas Ji says:

“ satigur naanak dheau hai paramesur soiee|
Guru Nanak is the true Guru and is God Himself.”

And Bhai Gurdas ji also says:

“ pooran braham gur gobi(n)dh gobi(n)dh gur abigat gat simarat sikh sa(n)t hai ||56||
Similarly all powerful, all knowing Guru is God Himself. He is both Guru and God. This incomprehensible state can best be understood by a Guru-conscious person”

And has Guru Arjan Dev Ji says:

“ apane kaj kau kiau alakaieeaii
Why are you so lazy in your mission (to become one with God) “

Then Guru Nanak and Kalyug spoke. Kalyug said that he would make people lazy, unwilling to even leave their beds. Guru Nanak replied that in the home of His Sikh who reads Bani, Kalyug’s power would not work.

Do not become lazy.

If you wake up at 4am, then wake up properly, do what you need to do, and later rest if needed — no problem. If you wake up at 9am, still get up and begin your day instead of wasting hours laying around.

Keep your body healthy because physical health affects mental health, and mental health affects spiritual growth. A healthy and disciplined body can help a Sikh progress both spiritually and physically.

Being a Sikh does not mean sitting in one place all day only doing Naam Simran. You can go for walks, bike rides, spend time in nature, and still remember Waheguru.

Personally, I even find Simran easier while walking. Once you get into that rhythm and pace, Naam Jap begins flowing naturally and you can continue for a long time without feeling tired.

Many Sikhs nowadays have forgotten that Sikhi is more than just reading Bani and doing Simran. It is also about taking care of the body that Waheguru has given you.

Of course, we all work jobs, get tired, and become ill at times. Rest is important when needed. But there is a difference between genuine rest and becoming attached to comfort. That short comfort from constantly staying in bed can slowly damage a person spiritually, physically, and mentally over time.

Many people say they want to begin Sikhi or progress further in it. One piece of advice I would give — though there are far greater Sikhs than me and I am only the dust of the Sikhs — is this: if you are struggling in Sikhi, start spending more time in nature, start moving your body, and slowly bring discipline back into your life. As your body becomes more active, your mind and your connection to Sikhi often become stronger too.

Do not become lazy, because laziness also strengthens the Five Thieves — but that is a discussion for another day

Sinners in Sikhi.

The word sin itself carries a very heavy meaning. It is heavier than the weights people lift in the gym. But can a sinner be forgiven in Sikhi?

Throughout the Jeevans of the Guru Sahibs, many people committed sins and still received forgiveness from Maharaj.

Understand it this way: no matter your age, spiritually we are still like toddlers. A toddler makes mistakes, sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly. The parents forgive the child, teach them, and help them not repeat the same mistake again. Sikhi is similar.

If a Sikh commits a sin and truly realises it, then the first step is awareness. The person accepts what they have done instead of hiding from it.

The second step is coming to the Guru with Nimrata and Ardaas, asking for forgiveness with a sincere heart.

And the third step — the hardest step of all — is not repeating that same sin again.

This is where many people struggle. Some people continue doing the same wrong actions over and over again while expecting forgiveness every single time without truly changing themselves. That becomes dangerous.

We all have free will. Think of it this way: if you give a lion complete freedom and remove the cage, it can become destructive. The human mind can become even more dangerous than a wild animal when it is left uncontrolled.

Do not misunderstand this. Guru Sahib is extremely compassionate and forgiving. But if someone knowingly keeps repeating the same sins again and again without effort to change, then they should not expect good outcomes.

As Guru Sahib says:

je gur kee saranee fir oh aavai taa pichhale aaugan bakhas liaa ||
But if he should come again to the Sanctuary of the Guru, then even his past sins shall be forgiven.

jan naanak anadhin naam dhiaaiaa har simarat kilavikh paap giaa ||2||
Servant Nanak meditates on the Naam, night and day. Remembering the Lord in meditation, wickedness and sins are erased. ||2||

Guru Sahib forgives those who come with hearts full of Sharda and sincerity. But a Sikh should not take forgiveness as permission to keep repeating the same wrong actions endlessly.

Sometimes, just five minutes of pleasure can turn into hours, days, or even years of Dukh.

Treat Sikhi like a marathon, not a 100-metre race.

Let me explain.

When someone runs a marathon, they understand one thing: the journey is long. There will be pain, exhaustion, moments of doubt, moments of strength, and moments where quitting feels easier than continuing.

A professional runner does not waste all their energy at the beginning. They keep balance, patience, discipline, and consistency. If they run too fast, they burn out halfway. If they go too slow, they never reach their full potential.

Sikhi is exactly the same.

Many people begin the path with intense motivation. One day they suddenly decide they will wake up at Amritvela, read many Banis, do hours of Simran, listen to Katha all day, and completely change overnight. But after some time, the mind becomes tired, discipline breaks, and the person slowly loses consistency.

At the same time, moving too slowly also causes loss. A person can spend years around Sikhi but never truly grow because they never push themselves forward.

That is why Sikhi is a marathon.
Not too fast.
Not too slow.
Steady. Consistent. Real.

But there is something even deeper about this journey.

In Sikhi, there are experiences, struggles, tests, and lessons every Sikh must go through themselves. You cannot skip them. You cannot hack them. You cannot take shortcuts around them.

Every stage teaches something.
Every fall teaches humility.
Every struggle teaches patience.
Every moment of pain teaches reliance on Waheguru.
Every battle with the mind teaches discipline.

If someone tries to force spiritual progress without truly living and understanding these experiences, then the foundation stays weak. From the outside it may look impressive, but inside there is emptiness.

A tree that grows too quickly without strong roots falls in the first storm.

The Guru’s path is not about looking spiritual for a few days. It is about slowly becoming spiritually strong for life.

And the truth is, the court of Akaal Purakh is not impressed by speed, appearances, or temporary motivation. What matters is sincerity, humility, effort, and remaining connected through every season of life.

Some days you may read a lot.
Some days your mind may struggle.
Some days you may fall.

But keep walking.

One sincere step every day is greater than running ahead for a week and then abandoning the path completely.

As Bhai Gurdas Ji says:

“gurmukh a(n)g a(n)g pa(n)g saraba(n)g liv dhirasaT surat saadh sa(n)gat prasaadh hai ||199||

Every limb of the Sikhs who are obedient to the True Guru are pious. By the grace of the company of holy people, their mind and vision remains focused in meditation on Naam and glimpse of the True Guru.”

Sikhi is not won in one day.
It is lived, experienced, struggled through, and slowly merged into over a lifetime

Kalyug — the final Yug out of the four Yugs: Satyug, Treta Yug, Dwapar Yug, and now Kalyug.
Most people only hear negative things about Kalyug, and yes, this Yug is filled with distractions, suffering, corruption, attachment, and spiritual darkness. But there is also something very unique about it.

Guru Gobind Singh Ji describes this Yug as special in its own way. In many ways, it is like a bonus Yug.
Think of it like this: if someone invests £10 and receives triple or quadruple back, that is considered a huge return. Spiritually, Kalyug is similar. Even small efforts done with sincerity can bring massive spiritual rewards compared to previous Yugs.

Bhai Gurdas Ji writes beautifully:
“namasakaar dda(n)ddaut kar gurbhaiee gal mil gal laavai|
Worthy are the hands who bow, help in prostrating and embrace a brother Sikh;”

“kirat virat kar dharam dhee hathahu dhe kai bhalaa manaavai|
Who earn a livelihood honestly and”

Work hard. Speak sweetly. Live honestly.

A Sikh does not need to run into jungles, hang upside down from trees, sit naked in freezing mountains, or perform extreme Tapasya to find Waheguru.

For a Sikh, reading Gurbani with love while living truthfully at home carries immense spiritual reward — even greater than many difficult austerities done only to impress the world.

Guru Nanak Dev Ji taught a path for everyday life:
earn honestly, remember Waheguru, help others, and keep your speech sweet and humble.

The real Tapasya in Sikhi is controlling the mind while living in the world.
To stay humble when angry, truthful when lying is easier, and connected to Naam while surrounded by Maya — that is the difficult path.

A Sikh can live with family, work a normal job, and still reach great spiritual heights through Gurbani, Simran, and good character.

In previous Yugs, people performed intense Tapasya, Naam Jap, and spiritual discipline for extremely long periods of time. The rewards matched the effort exactly. But in Kalyug, even a little sincere Simran, a little honest effort, or a few genuine good deeds can bring multiplied spiritual rewards.

This does not mean we should only do good deeds for rewards. The point is that Waheguru has made this path more accessible in such a difficult era. Even small sincere efforts carry great weight in the court of Akaal Purakh.

Yes, Kalyug is difficult. In many ways, it is terrifying. And honestly, it will continue getting worse. The distractions, temptations, ego, and darkness of the world will keep increasing.
But for someone walking the path of Guru Nanak Dev Ji, there is protection.
Think of Kalyug like walking through a haunted house in complete darkness. If you remember

Waheguru and stay connected to Naam and good actions, then Waheguru becomes your torch. Wherever that light shines, fear begins disappearing. But without that light, a person becomes trapped in fear and confusion.
This world may look beautiful, modern, aesthetic, and attractive from the outside, but spiritually it can become worse than hell for the person disconnected from Naam.

That is why a Sikh should never fight Kalyug alone.
Fight it with the Shakti of Guru Nanak.
Fight it with “Satnaam Waheguru.”
Fight it with Gurbani, Simran, and Sangat.
Kalyug is difficult, yes. But it is also one of the greatest opportunities for spiritual growth. In many ways, it is easier to spiritually rise now than in previous Yugs—if a person sincerely connects themselves to the Guru.

And for those wondering more deeply about the other Yugs and how spiritual practice worked within them, listening to Katha about the lives of Guru Sahibaan and reading the old Granths explains it beautifully.

It’s almost been a year since I first started posting in this community. The love and appreciation my posts have received are truly beyond words, and I just want to say a heartfelt thank you for all the support. I never imagined that what I share would get this much attention.

I’d also like to thank the moderators for allowing me to share the Guru Nanak series, which has been running for a few months now and will continue going forward.

I also want to clarify something that a few people have mentioned: some have asked if I use AI, and the answer is yes—but not in the way you might think. I don’t simply tell AI to write everything based on a brief idea. Every post I share is written entirely by me, drawn from my own experiences, thoughts, and what I have learned and observed about Sikhi since I was young. Only after I have written the full content myself do I use AI to fix any grammar or spelling errors. I never use AI to create or rewrite the actual content of my posts.

Additionally, I don’t post here to “farm karma.” For me, being part of this community isn’t just about sharing—it’s also about learning from all of you.

Once again, thank you so much. If anyone has ideas or suggestions on how I can improve my posts, please feel free to let me know.

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh

One thing I have experienced in Sikhi is that sometimes we have something so precious, yet because it is always available to us, we stop valuing it properly. We think:
“It will always be there. I can return to it whenever I want.”

And because of that mindset, we ignore it.

Only when that precious connection becomes weak, or begins slipping away, do we truly realise how valuable it actually was. Only then do we think:
“I should have used this time better.”
“I should have appreciated it more.”

Sikhi is extremely precious. Rarest of the rare. The Giaan it holds has no equal. Nothing in the world compares to it. It is the highest of the high.

And Sikhi is not cheap either. By this, I do not mean money. I mean it is expensive for the soul.

If someone earns £30,000 a year and wishes to buy a £500 million house, it would almost feel impossible for them. Sikhi is similar. Reaching those spiritual heights is not something cheap or easy. It takes discipline, sacrifice, patience, and deep love.

But today, people have made Sikhi feel cheap.

There may be a Gutka Sahib sitting in the house, yet nobody opens it. Everyone now has a phone and can listen to Kirtan at any moment, yet very few truly use that blessing.

If a Sikh genuinely begins following Sikhi the way it is meant to be lived, they can achieve incredible things—both spiritually and even in worldly life.

Sikhi is like an ocean, while the Sikh is only a small drop of water. That drop is meant to merge into the ocean, yet most drops remain separate. But the drop that truly merges becomes one with it. It is no longer trapped by the five vices. Dukh and Sukh no longer control that person in the same way.

But only those who understand how valuable Sikhi truly is will reach that stage. Those who treat it cheaply rarely go deep into it.

It is similar to a billionaire who lives comfortably and stops appreciating what they have because they think it will never disappear. But if that wealth suddenly vanishes, only then do they realise how comfortable and blessed they truly were.

Sikhi is similar. Many people—including myself—do not appreciate it fully while it is right in front of us. And sometimes, when a person finally realises its value, that inner spark has already weakened.

But even then, the way back is still there.

Slowly merge yourself back into Sikhi.
Reconnect to Gurbani.
Reconnect to Simran.
Reconnect to the Guru.

In Sikhi, do not wait for that “special moment.” Don’t keep saying:
“My time will come.”
“One day I’ll change.”
“One day I’ll start reading Bani.”
“One day I’ll take Amrit when Guru Sahib does Kirpa.”

Because Guru Sahib is not going to come to your house and tell you again and again to pray, read Bani, listen to Katha, or connect to Kirtan. Maharaj has already spoken. The teachings are already here. Now the step has to come from us.

Many people wait for some magical moment like we see in movies—where suddenly everything changes and motivation appears out of nowhere. But real life is not like that. In real life, growth begins the moment you stop waiting and simply pick up the Gutka Sahib and start.

Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji teaches something very deep: youth passes quickly while a person remains lost in temporary pleasures, and only later do they realise how much time was wasted.

Especially today, many young people are attracted to things that look “aesthetic” or spiritual from the outside. But Sikhi is not about appearance or vibes. Sikhi is discipline, consistency, patience, and action.

If you have been thinking about growing in Sikhi, then start now—not next year, not next month, not “when life settles down.” Start now. Because the earlier someone begins, the more they realise later:
“I’m so grateful I started early.”

Think about sports. If one athlete trains for a year before a final, and another only starts training one month before, who will stand stronger? The same applies to Sikhi. Start building now, little by little.

And another truth about today’s world is this: almost all of us have knowledge. We know what is harmful and what is beneficial. We know not to drink poison because it will destroy the body. In the same way, we also know that without Gurbani, Simran, and connection to Waheguru, the mind never finds real peace.

Yet many of us—including myself—still struggle to act on that knowledge.

In today’s world, everyone has Giaan, but very few actually live according to it.

That is the difference.

Many people have probably thought this at some point:

“What’s the point of reading the same Bani again and again? Isn’t it the same Pangtian every time?”

It is a genuine question, and in Sikhi, asking questions is not wrong. But to understand the answer, we first have to understand one thing:

Guru Granth Sahib Ji is deeper than the ocean itself. And even today, humans have only explored a tiny percentage of the ocean.

But Gurbani is even deeper.
The deeper you go into it, the deeper it continues to become.

Yes, the words of the Bani remain the same. Japji Sahib will still be Japji Sahib. Rehras Sahib will still be Rehras Sahib. Sukhmani Sahib will still contain the same Pangtian. The wording does not change.

But the person reading it changes.

Every time someone reads Bani with love, respect, and attention, something slowly begins changing inside them. The mind becomes cleaner. Thoughts become calmer. Negativity slowly weakens. Love for Waheguru grows stronger.

And one thing people who regularly read Bani understand deeply is this:
every time you read it, you notice something new.

A new understanding appears.
A new feeling arises.
A new line suddenly hits the heart differently.

Nobody comes from outside and magically explains it to you. It comes from within.

That is the power of Gurbani.

Whether someone is in pain or happiness, Bani is always there—either to guide, comfort, strengthen, or humble them.

A simple example from today’s world is our phones. We use the same phone every day. The same screen. The same apps. The same colours. Most of what we see is repetitive, yet we still keep returning to it daily.

Gurbani is similar in one sense: the Pangtian stay the same, but every time you return to them, you gain something new from them.

But unlike ordinary books, Gurbani never finishes teaching you.

For example, if someone studies a science book enough times, eventually they memorise most of it and move on to another book for new knowledge. But Gurbani is different. A person can read Japji Sahib ten times and receive ten different understandings from it.

This is something difficult to fully explain in words. It is something that is felt by those who have stayed connected to Bani consistently over time.

Sometimes questions get answered through it.
Sometimes peace comes through it.
Sometimes strength comes through it.

And sometimes, without even realising it, the person reading it slowly begins changing from within.

Waheguru helps those who are willing to try.

In Sikhi, you have to take the first step yourself—and honestly, that is usually the hardest part. But once a person genuinely takes one step towards the Guru, Guru Sahib takes thousands towards them.

The problem is that many people stop themselves before they even begin. They say:
“I can’t do it.”
“I’m not strong enough.”
“I don’t have the power.”

But without effort, nothing changes.

If someone does not work hard for what they want, how can they expect to receive it?

Think about a normal job. If you go to work at 9 AM, sit there all day doing nothing, and then ask for your pay at 5 PM, what will happen? You will be told:
“You did no work, so why should you be paid?”

Sikhi is similar in this way. Without effort, without trying to change yourself, without practicing what Guru Sahib teaches, a person cannot expect spiritual growth.

Reading Bani is important—but don’t just read it mechanically. Work on it. Reflect on it. If Guru Sahib teaches something in Bani, then try to apply it in your life.

The same goes for Katha. Don’t let it enter one ear and leave through the other. Sit with it. Think about it. Let it challenge you. Let it change something inside you.

A true Sikh is not someone who only listens. A true Sikh is someone who listens to Guru Sahib and then genuinely tries their best to live according to those teachings. That is when Waheguru’s Kirpa begins to flow.

A simple example from today’s world is school. Imagine a student attends every maths class for the whole year but never opens their book, never practices, and never studies. Their attendance may be 100%, but their knowledge will still be 0%.

So what is the point of the body being present when the mind is absent?

In the same way, simply calling yourself a Sikh is not enough. The mind must also walk towards the Guru. That is when one begins to experience the true peace and happiness taught by Guru Nanak Dev Ji.

I know it is easier said than done, but a Sikh of Guru Sahib should not live in constant worry. Worry does not remove problems—it often creates even more. When the mind becomes trapped in fear and overthinking, a person starts making more mistakes, becomes weaker mentally, and forgets the One who is truly protecting them.

Guru Gobind Singh Ji protects his Sikhs in ways we cannot always see. It is like an invisible umbrella during heavy rain. The storm may still be there, but Maharaj protects you from being completely drowned by it.

Especially during times like now, when many students around the world are stressed about exams, results, work, or the future, it is important to remember the Guru’s teachings.

As Guru Sahib says:

“Nanak, Chinta Mat Karo, Chinta ‘Tis He Het”

Many of us worry so much about the future that we destroy our present. Even when we are fully capable of achieving something, worry makes the mind believe failure is already coming. Fear weakens confidence, creates pressure, and slowly distances us from Waheguru.

Think back to when you were a child. If something went wrong, or you got yourself into trouble, where did you run? To your mother or father. And the moment you reached them, your fear became smaller because deep down you knew:
“My parents will handle it.”

That is the relationship a Sikh should have with the Guru.

Do your effort.
Study hard.
Work honestly.
Face your responsibilities.

But after doing that, leave the rest to Waheguru.

Because worrying day and night changes nothing. It only steals peace from the mind.

So remember do not let worry consume you, because Guru Gobind Singh Ji is watching over you.

Pride. Even the word itself feels heavy when spoken. It carries power. And for a Sikh, pride is one of the most dangerous things to fall into.

Many of us today may have wealth, comfort, success, influence, or abilities that others do not have. Some people achieve things that others only dream about. And slowly, without even realising it, pride begins to grow inside.

Even in Sikhi this happens.
If someone reads 5 Sukhmani Sahibs, does a lot of Simran, or performs great Seva, the mind instantly wants others to know about it. It wants praise. It wants recognition.

But what does Maharaj teach?

Being successful is not wrong.
Being capable is not wrong.
Even feeling happy about what you have achieved is not wrong.

The danger begins when pride enters the heart and starts showing itself to others. That is when a person slowly begins to fall from everything they built.

A powerful example comes from the life of Guru Gobind Singh Ji. After the battle of Chamkaur Sahib, a king said to Maharaj:
“If you had called me to fight, nobody would have died.”

The king was speaking from pride, trying to show his strength.

Guru Sahib then tested him. Maharaj told him to stand behind a shield while a gun was fired at it. Guru Sahib said that if the bullet could not go through, then the shield was truly strong.

But the king knew the bullet would easily pierce the shield. Fear entered his heart immediately, and he refused.

In that very moment, the pride he was displaying collapsed.

That is the nature of pride.
It speaks loudly until it is tested.

A Sikh should always remain in Nimrata (humility). Because pride is like a strong wind—it can destroy everything a person spent years building.

There is nothing wrong with sharing happiness or experiences with others. But showing off, looking down on people, or feeling spiritually “higher” than others is where destruction begins.

The higher a tree grows, the more it bends.
In the same way, the more a Sikh grows spiritually, the more humble they should become.

Because the moment a person starts believing,
“I did this,”
“I am greater,”
“I am above others,”

that is often the very moment the fall begins.

You will receive what is written for you—at the right time. Not before it, and not after it.

Waheguru works in ways that the human mind can never fully understand. Many times we become impatient because we only see the present moment, while Akaal Purakh sees the entire journey.

Look at Baba Deep Singh Ji. When they were brought to Guru Gobind Singh Ji at a young age, their life was spent in Seva, reading Bani, and writing holy scriptures. Year after year passed quietly.

And then, when the right time arrived, their destined moment came. At Takht Sri Damdama Sahib, while Bhai Mani Singh Ji was sitting nearby, Guru Sahib gave Bachan that Baba Deep Singh Ji would fight even after being beheaded.

That moment did not come early.
It came exactly when it was meant to.

Life works the same way for us.

Keep living your life.
Keep doing your worldly responsibilities.
Keep remembering Guru Nanak Dev Ji.

And what truly belongs to you will come—but only when the time is right.

Sometimes it takes days.
Sometimes months.
Sometimes years.
Sometimes even generations or Yugs.

So stop rushing everything.

Be grateful for what you already have while working patiently towards what is meant for you. Because when something arrives at the right time, it carries peace with it.

But if you force something that was never meant for you, trust me—it will never truly last.

A simple example from today’s world: many people rush relationships, money, success, or status because they feel “behind” after looking at others on social media. They force things before their time, and in the beginning it may look perfect—but later it breaks apart, brings stress, or leaves them empty.

Then there are others who move patiently, keep faith, work quietly, and wait. And when things finally come into their life, they come with stability, peace, and meaning.

And as Guru Shaib says “Thir Ghar Baise Arjan Pyare, Satguru Tumre Khaj Sware”. Sit tight at home and your Guru shall put all of your affairs right.

Not everything delayed is denied.
Sometimes Waheguru is simply preparing the right moment

In life, we often miss the small things that were meant to make us happy. And this is one of the biggest reasons people suffer—or what today’s world often calls “mental health struggles.”

Social media has damaged the way our minds work. It has trained our brains to constantly chase bigger results, bigger rewards, bigger lifestyles, and bigger attention.

And because of that, we stop appreciating the small joys that quietly keep us alive inside.

The more we expect huge rewards from life, the more disappointed we become. We forget the little blessings we already have.

Think of it like this: if someone eats an entire chocolate cake in one sitting, they will become sick because the body cannot handle that much at once. But if they eat small slices over time, they enjoy it, feel satisfied, and remain healthy.

Life is the same.

We keep waiting for one massive moment that will finally make us happy, while ignoring the hundreds of small moments that already carry peace within them.

If you wake up tomorrow, eat breakfast, go to work or school, and return home safely—that is a blessing.
If you have a phone in your pocket, food to eat, a warm bed, a car to drive, or even the ability to relax after a long day—that is a blessing.

For someone struggling with illness, be grateful it has not become worse.
For someone nearing the end of life, be grateful that the tongue can still speak the name of Waheguru.

Gratitude for the small things is important. Without it, a person will continue to suffer no matter how much they gain.

Even Guru Nanak Dev Ji, while travelling through deep jungles, paid attention to the beauty of Kudrat. He would walk with Bhai Mardana Ji, speaking, reflecting, and singing Kirtan.

The Guru teaches us to slow down enough to notice life.

Notice the air.
Notice the quiet moments.
Notice the people around you.
Notice the blessings you already have.

As guru Shaib says: “ Akhi kudrat, kani bani, mukh akhan sach naam “. With the eyes look at the Kudrat, with the ears listen to bani, and with the mouth recite Bani.

Learn to be happy in the small parts of life.

And do not become consumed by the future, even if the mind tries its hardest to drag you there.

Because sometimes peace is not found in gaining more—
but in finally appreciating what was already there.

As Maharaj says, “Dukh is the medicine, and Sukh is the disease.”
This is a very deep teaching, but only a few truly understand it.

Many of us, especially in today’s generation, grow up hearing the same thing:
“If you pray, stay good, and believe in Waheguru, your life will become peaceful.”

But Sikhi does not promise a life without pain.

In fact, when someone truly begins walking the path of Guru Nanak Dev Ji, they should not expect life to suddenly become easy. Difficulties will still come. Pain will still come. Storms will still come.

Sometimes those storms will not bring rain—
they will bring suffering, loss, pressure, loneliness, and tests from every direction.

Look at Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Could they not have lived peacefully if they wanted to? Of course they could have. They had the power to shake empires. They could have destroyed the Mughals in moments if they wished.

And what about Guru Arjan Dev Ji? Did they have to go through torture? No. But through their suffering, they taught the world something greater.

The path of Guru Nanak does not teach:
“Follow me, and I will remove every obstacle from your life.”

It teaches something much deeper:
“I will make you strong enough to face every obstacle.”

That is the difference.

Sikhi is not about escaping pain.
It is about learning how to stand through pain with faith, patience, and acceptance of Hukam.

To accept Dukh with a smile…
to keep faith even when life becomes heavy…
to still remember Waheguru when everything feels broken—
that is the strength Sikhi builds within a person.

Real peace is not a life without problems.
Real peace is staying connected to Waheguru even during the storm.

Because in the end, Sikhi was never about living a comfortable or easy life.
It was about becoming strong enough to walk through life—no matter how hard it becomes—while staying connected to Waheguru.

Many people think that becoming a Sikh means they must become “perfect” from the very first day. Even I used to think this way. We feel that the moment we step onto the path of Sikhi, we must instantly follow everything Guru Sahib has taught.

Wake up at 3 AM.
Do Ishnaan.
Read all Banis.
Do Simran.
Control the mind.
Live exactly as Maharaj says throughout the entire day.

But the truth is—if someone tries to force all of this onto themselves from day one, they will most likely become mentally drained and overwhelmed very quickly.

Guru Sahib never said that the moment someone begins walking towards Waheguru, they must become perfect overnight. No.

Guru Sahib teaches us to build slowly—like placing bricks one by one. A wall is never built in a single moment. It takes patience, consistency, and time.

The same applies to Sikhi.

One day you may read all your Banis. Another day, maybe only two. Some days your mind will feel connected, and other days it may feel distracted. That does not mean you have failed.

What matters is that you keep walking. Keep trying. Keep returning to the Guru.

Because slowly, day by day…
days turn into weeks,
weeks into months,
and months into years.

Then one day, without even realising it, you wake up and see that the things that once felt difficult have become part of your life naturally.

Sikhi is not about becoming 100% in one night.
It is about discipline, patience, effort, and staying consistent even after falling.

The Guru is not looking for instant perfection.
The Guru is looking for sincerity.

Many people at some point wonder: what is the difference between Guru Nanak and Guru Gobind Singh?

And that question is not wrong. In Sikhi, asking, thinking, and even feeling unsure is not the problem. The real mistake is accepting an answer without seeking the truth behind it.

The truth is simple—but often misunderstood:
there is no difference between Guru Nanak Dev Ji and Guru Gobind Singh Ji.

The only visible difference is the physical form—the body, the time, the appearance. But the Jot (divine light) within them is the same. It is one, continuous, unchanged.

Guru Nanak Dev Ji stood fearlessly against injustice, even challenging powerful rulers of his time. Guru Gobind Singh Ji did the same—standing against oppression and tyranny without hesitation.

Guru Nanak Dev Ji spoke truth wherever it needed to be spoken, no matter the consequences. Guru Gobind Singh Ji also upheld that same truth, with the same courage and clarity.

So what is the difference?
Not in their essence. Not in their mission. Not in their truth.

The same light, the same purpose, the same divine flow—just expressed through different moments in history.

Sometimes people say, “I follow Guru Nanak more than Guru Gobind Singh.”
But this comes from not fully understanding.

Because separating them means missing the reality:
they are not two paths.
They are one.

A simple example from today:
Think of electricity flowing through different devices—a lamp, a phone, or a heater. The shapes, uses, and appearances are different, but the current powering them is the same. In the same way, the forms of the Gurus may look different, but the Jot within them is one and the same.

To truly understand Sikhi is to see beyond the outer form…
and recognise the same light shining through every Guru.

Calling yourself a Sikh will not bring Mukti. Having “Singh” or “Kaur” as a surname will not bring Mukti.

In Sikhi, people can fall into subtle superstition—thinking, “Yes, Guru Sahib said this… but I’ll follow it in my own way, in a way that feels comfortable to me.” And this is exactly where things begin to go wrong.

Take a simple example. Guru Sahib clearly teaches: do not speak harshly, do not think badly of others, and do not wish harm upon anyone. Yet many of us—even myself—twist this teaching without realising it. We start judging others based on how they speak, what they wear, or how they present themselves. Somewhere inside, we begin to think we are better than them.

But that is already a step away from the Guru’s path.

And this is just one example. Walking the path of Guru Nanak is not easy. It is extremely difficult—finer than a single strand of hair. Not impossible, because many Gursikhs have walked it—but it demands honesty, discipline, and complete effort.

Simply calling yourself a Sikh is not enough. The reward comes to the one who truly tries—who gives their full effort to live by Guru Sahib’s teachings.

It’s important to understand something deeper: each of us is like a whole world—an entire universe within ourselves. Before looking at someone else’s world, we should look at our own. Where can we improve? What mistakes could we have avoided? What can we do better next time?

Think before you act. Reflect before you judge.

Because the real journey is not about what we call ourselves—
it’s about what we become

I bow at the feet of Sarasvati, whose eyes are as beautiful as lotus petals, and whose great wisdom keeps thoughts flowing like a river—its waves carrying divine words.

Sri Bala Sandhur Vaach…

The monsoon passed in enjoyment, and winter arrived. Winter was beautiful, like Sharda, whose form shines like the moon. The sky resembled her blue garments, the clouds glowed with radiance, and the stars sparkled like diamonds upon them. Graceful swans flew within this vastness. Her hands were as soft as lotus flowers, and her white form, like moonlight, cooled the heat of false wisdom while nurturing true understanding.

In every home, the Pittars (ancestors during Pitru Sharadha) came as honoured guests. Travellers returned to their homes. Offerings of clothes were made to Ganesh and Chandi. Kings marched to conquer lands. The white clouds, now empty of water, appeared like an ageing body drained of strength, like lesser beings fleeing, like Gyanis free from desire.

The Giver of Moksha, the Beautiful One, the Abode of Joy, remained in constant bliss. In winter, he broke all worldly bonds and turned inward. Detached from the world, the flag of the Bedis stood in solitude within his home. Wise saints came to listen to him, and Guru ji himself would visit such saints. He did not sit among the unwise. He spoke of Nirankaar and shared words of love with seekers.

The Virakat Sadhus, detached from the world, abandoned all bonds. To them, caste, creed, gender, and wealth were all the same. They found joy in listening to Guru ji. Even those who had played with him in childhood felt as though he no longer recognised them. He remained among the Udaaseen Sadhus—those free from worldly ties—who gathered in his presence.

Guru ji’s mother grew concerned. She came to him and said, “Son, listen and think about your responsibilities. Why do you sit with Fakirs? Live the life of a householder. If not farming, then learn a trade or business—do something that brings profit. Take care of the household. Earn and support your family.

If a Kshatriya sees you as successful, they will wish to marry their daughter to you. You will be praised. But now, people see you as someone who does not wish to work. They laugh and call you useless. They say to us, ‘Your son does nothing.’ The poor and idle are seen as unwise. Some say you lack strength. Even family members mock you, their words striking like stones. How can we bear this?

Leave the company of Fakirs. Sit with your relatives and the wise. Think of your father’s honour and act accordingly.”

Hearing this, Guru ji paid no attention. He covered himself with a sheet and lay down in silence, absorbed in Bhagti. The Abode of Joy remained within him. He neither spoke nor moved with worldly awareness, remaining immersed in inner bliss. People assumed he was ill, as he did not eat joyfully and stayed quiet.

Mata ji lovingly fed him sweets and said, “You have grown weak. Why don’t you speak of your pain? Your face has lost its colour, and your body seems frail. You do not speak happily or meet your friends. You remain alone day and night and barely eat. It seems like a disease has taken hold.”

Worried, she spoke of calling a Vaid (doctor), praying in her heart to Shiv ji, Chandi, and Ganesh: “Please heal my son. I will offer what is due.” Bowing before Vishnu, she pleaded, “Son, tell me your pain so I may cure you. I will call the Vaid today.” Yet Guru ji remained silent.

Relatives gathered, concerned. Guru ji neither ate nor drank, only gazing into the distance. The family was distressed, unable to understand the illness or its cure. They urged Mehta Kalu ji, “Your son is suffering. Why are you without worry? Call a Vaid. Do not hold back money—if he recovers, all will be well.”

Listening to them, Mehta Kalu ji asked his brother, Chacha Lalu ji, to call a Vaid.

Chacha Lalu ji went and brought Vaid Haridas ji, whose good fortune was about to unfold as he approached the Abode of Joy. Guru ji lay covered with a sheet. Mehta Kalu ji said, “Vaid ji, examine him. He lies all day, refuses food, has grown pale and weak. Find his illness and cure him.”

The Vaid sat beside Guru ji, removed the sheet, and held his wrist to check his pulse. As he touched the hand of the Destroyer of Pain, Guru ji rose and gently withdrew his hand, saying, “You have held my hand—tell me, what lies in your heart?”

The Vaid replied, “Child, I am checking your illness—whether it is Pith, Vai, or Kaph, or an issue of mucus or blood. I will find the cause and give you medicine. Follow it, and you will recover, regain strength, and feel hunger again.”

Hearing this, Guru ji spoke:

Sri Mukhvaak: Salok M: 1…

The Vaid was called to give medicine, he held the arm to find the pulse.

The naïve Vaid does not know—the pain lies within the mind. (SGGS 1279)

He continued, “Since the beginning, humans have been afflicted with ego. This is the true suffering. Birth and death do not cure it. If you yourself are ill, how can you see others as well? The medicine that removes ego brings eternal bliss to the heart. The one who cures this is the true Vaid—free from birth and death, free from pain. Listen carefully, and I will tell you how to cure it.”

The Vaid, astonished, realised he was before a rare and divine being. Folding his hands, he said, “Please share this wisdom. My heart longs for it.”

Guru ji replied, “Attachment and ego are the root of all illness. See the soul as separate from the body. Understand the difference between consciousness and unconsciousness. Remove the illusion that you are the body—this destroys ego.

Pride in wealth, virtue, or praise is a great disease. Ego is the greatest illness. See the presence of Hari everywhere and remain humble—this is the cure. Simran creates a longing to unite with Hari.

Desires and greed are like a constant cough. The world is temporary—attachment to it brings suffering. Lust, anger, and attachment are like imbalances that weaken wisdom. The Guru’s word is the true medicine.

Slandering others is like sickness; humility is its cure. All such illnesses are healed through the dust of the Satguru’s feet.”

Hearing this, the Vaid was transformed. He recognised the true Master of the mind. Bowing, he said, “I was ignorant and could not recognise you. Your words have removed my doubt. I am healed. Please bless me so that all my inner illnesses are removed.”

Guru ji said, “Join Satsangat. Your illnesses will fade.”

Filled with joy, the Vaid returned home, immersed himself in Satsangat, and began Simran of Prabhu. His doubts were destroyed, and he became worthy of Mukti.

Thus, Guru ji blessed him: “Remember Prabhu always and keep your focus on Him.”