u/Pretty_Produce_2900

I am having an issue with the pokemon games (a skill issue), where I can't find out how to beat a gym leader or how to get somewhere, and It always ends up with me looking up the answer. I was wondering if anyone had a solution to this since I hate it when I end up finding the answer without any effort. The longest that i've gone without looking up another answer to a problem im facing in the game. Any advice or suggestions would help (or if I need to start on an easier game).