Doing XTC with someone new (24M / 24F): How to handle her first time without messing up our connection?
I’ve been seeing a girl for about a month and a half now (we're both 24). We vibe amazingly well and have built some really strong intimate feelings, even though we both keep our cards close to our chest we have both admitted we feel very strong towards each other. The connection is almost too strong for how short a time it’s been.
She wants to try MDMA/XTC for the first time ever. I haven't done it since 2021. I already tested the XOs I have to make sure they aren't cut with fentanyl. But I am not even sure I want to risk what we have due to taking ecstasy together. I feel like it'd be a great time but the come down period is what I'm more concerned about. She is strong mentally as well as I and I have done this before and had a very chill come down and one where I just wasn't in the best mood for a couple of days so not all that bad. I'm just concerned for her end. I have healthy foods to help replenish and electrolytes for hydration. I feel like I'm prepared as 1 can get but a little hesitant, even though she's the one who wanted to do them.
Any advice/perspectives would be greatly appreciated!