u/Quirkymillenial1107

hi guys, 31F here. I am married.

when going to clubs with our friends, ive always had a question and my husband and I go back and forth with this.

obviously in that environment there’s loud music so you lean in to talk or say something to someone. if a man, (mutual friend, married or not) touches my shoulder or my back while telling me something, is that intentional or do mean not really think about that? I have men who say every touch has intent and others who say that’s normal and means nothing, especially if that person tends to particularly be touchy.