u/RDMercerJunior

Rebuilding after divorce. WFH for lower pay?

53 years old. Just got divorced. No support payments, but I‘m losing half of 20 years of CPP and 17 years of a teacher union pension.

I’ll be debt free with about 8,000 in the bank. No other assets than my pension.

I’ve applied and been shortlisted for a job that pays $75k per year, working from home coordinating digital learning. My father is transitioning to a nursing home. I’d assume the old family home and live rent and mortgage free and cover bills for Dad until he’s moved. This job has a clear ceiling. There’s no progression. There’s also no car required. I won’t need much of a vehicle. I’ll be able to invest about $1000/mth until retirement.

Option B. Remain in my current job which pays $93k per year, but pay rent, and still pay some of Dads utilities. This job has significant room to grow. I was a name hire, recruited to this role and am exceeding expectations after one year. They want to invest in education and develop me for more leadership roles.

In option B, I will try to rent and maintain the family home until I retire to it in 12-13 years. I will be able to invest about $800/mth in this role, but I’ll be making higher pension contributions at work. I believe CPP is maxed out in both.

Which one would you pick and why?

EDIT: from a personal standpoint I love my dad, but he does have support from other kids and family. He’s 400km away in a very rural area. Moving WILL cap my career, but simplify it. Staying, I have a much higher ceiling, advancing to $100k in 2028 without switching roles.

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u/RDMercerJunior — 2 days ago

Acadian Peninsula in summer

I've travelled some in southern NB, but have never been to Caraquet and the Acadian Peninsula. I don't speak French at all. Am I going to be able to communicate with people much? Any recommendations for beaches or sights?

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u/RDMercerJunior — 7 days ago

80,000 miles/130,000kms

Auto

This is a great looking truck I found locally. Zero rust. I'm hearing different things about the transmission. Some say the gas engine transmissions are all quirky, other sources are saying the 4 cyl gas transmission is just fine.

I'm more worried about fuel mileage than hauling or towing. It will occasionally carry an ATV, that's it.

What reliability issues should I be aware of?

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u/RDMercerJunior — 24 days ago