u/RandomPotatoSoup

Is there even a "correct" way to go trough life? Of course there isn't. Everything you have reached so far is a cause of every little choice you have made in life ( butterfly effect). Even tho thats also an opinion one could argue with. But whats the mindset you could carry to gaurantee the most happiness in life? However, that also differs from person to person. Not every person has a mindset that brings them joy, but those that have, surely not all of those mindsets are the same. Yes, culture, religion, environment etc... all atribute to what becomes your primary source of joy. But is that it?

People are shaped from their experiances, traumas, memories and bonds they make. Some learn lessons from all that, but some experiance life without giving it much thougt, just cruising trough it. And i cant fathom how some dont learn from their mistakes. Take toxic relationships for example: one day its rainbows and sunshines with tension untill it breaks loose and 2 people break apart. Okay, if they got back together but now in a healty relationships i could understand, but no, same things happen in loops. How dont you look back and see its the same shit from before? Thats also a thing of mentallity. Are some people bound not to "truly live" life and be happy? Or is their mentallity a problem? I think its the later. So my question stands: whats a mindset you carry trough life that brings you peace and happiness? Could you work on it?