Pet sitter being asked to supervise client’s teen during a house sit. How would you handle this?
I’m a professional in-home pet sitter, and I’m in a bit of an awkward situation.
I have a repeat client that I genuinely enjoy working with. Their dogs are wonderful, and I’d love to continue pet sitting for them.
They recently asked if their 16-year-old daughter, who has Down syndrome and is fairly independent, could stay with me for the first week of their three-week vacation.
For some context, my brother had Down syndrome, so I do have experience and a comfort level around people with special needs. I think that’s probably why they felt comfortable asking me.
That said, I became a pet sitter because I care for animals—not because I’m qualified or insured to supervise people. Even if their daughter is mostly independent, I would still feel responsible for her safety, well-being, and anything that might happen while her parents are away. That’s a level of responsibility I’m just not comfortable taking on.
I don’t want to offend this family because I truly value them as clients and would love to continue caring for their dogs. I’m just trying to find the kindest way to say, “I’m happy to pet sit, but I can’t take on the responsibility of supervising your daughter.”
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How would you word it so it sets a clear boundary while preserving a good relationship?
EDIT***Everybody's telling me nope nope nope. I understand that and I want to say nope nope nope. I just need suggestions on how to do it without losing this client.