Do I have tuberous breasts? And if so what stage?
I’ve always struggled with the way my boobs look and I’ve tried to boost my confidence by getting piercings and tattoos to distract myself from the way they look,
Unfortunately It hasn’t really worked :(
I’ve always wondered why they look so different and why I can never find any representation or other young adults that have boobs like mine. although there is nothing wrong with the look of aging breasts I’ve also always struggled with the fact that I’ve never got to experience perky or “youthful” breasts, they’ve always been downturned and covered in stretch marks and saggy and I have always felt like I’ve had old lady boobs.
And only in the past couple of months I discovered what tuberous breast even were, and although it was nice to see representation of breasts that looked like mine it was also frustrating to have the first representation of my boobs that I see be a “deformity”.
And For some context, I have a girlfriend who I’ve been with for three years and she loves me and my boobs but I can’t help but think she wishes they were different because if I can’t see any beauty in them, how on earth dose she? And I’m very grateful that she loves them but I just don’t get it… I just wish I could see what she sees, it’s like every time I look at my boobs I’m disappointed and if I’m being honest a little disgusted, I don’t want to be, but it’s just the way I perceive myself. And I feel like boobs are such a beautiful uniquely feminine thing and in a way I feel deprived of having the experience of boobs. And I know that sounds silly because I have boobs, but I just don’t see anything feminine about them. And it’s getting to a point where my boobs are seriously affecting my mental health and the way I see myself. I’ve always struggled with self-confidence but as I’ve gotten older I’m struggling more and more with my boobs, and I’ve thought about getting some form of surgery, but surgery is really really expensive and personally I don’t think I would like implants for me, I thought about getting a fat transfer but I’m really uneducated and I don’t know what that would even look like, especially with tuberous breasts
So if anyone has any wisdom to share about anything I’ve touched on I’d love some feedback, this group is truly so beautiful and It’s been extremely helpful reading about other women’s experiences and seeing other women like me❣️