For all those who think that Yogesh and Akankhsa didn’t cheat on Ruru, and that pre-planning is equally wrong as cheating.
Let's talk about pre-planning first.
The thing is, in the case of pre-planning, Yogesh made a connection with Akanksha even when he knew that Ruru would come to the show later. So, he should not have given Akanksha so much hope.
Even Akanksha herself said that Yogesh told her things like, “I came on this show only for the game,” “I want to win,” “Don’t fall in love with me,” and “We both have commitment issues.” Akanksha herself admitted that Yogesh said all these things to her.
But still Ruru is not at fault
People are saying that Ruru should never have sent her boyfriend to a dating show, but we all know how real Splitsvilla actually is. More than a dating show, for Yogesh it was a job. It gave him fame and opportunities. So why should Ruru stop him?
And even if Ruru had tried to stop him, Yogesh still would have gone. Ruru did not want Yogesh to get close to Akanksha, but he still did. So it’s not like Yogesh would stop because of Ruru.
Now people are saying that if she treated it only as a job, then why did she have a problem when he made such a romantic connection on the show?
But that wasn’t necessary at all. Gullu and Kaira were also in the same game, and they won without any romantic connection. We have already seen examples like Baseer and Naina, Shruti and Gaurav — they had friendship connections, not love angles, yet they still won Splitsvilla.
So it’s not true that Yogesh could not move ahead or win the game without creating a romantic relationship. That was Yogesh’s mistake. He could have continued in the game with just a friendship connection, and this is not Ruru’s fault.
From Ruru’s perspective, she probably thought that Yogesh would play the game, gain work opportunities, and later play properly with her when she entered the show. So from her side, everything looked favorable. There was no cheating angle in her mind at all.
Cheating happened because of Yogesh.
Now people are bringing up the “suicidal” narrative. But Yogesh is not a child. We all saw on the show how loudly he shouted at Ruru too. If he really felt so dominated, why didn’t he speak up back then? Why couldn’t he say it openly on national television where cameras run ?
If Ruru was truly forcing him to say “I love you,” then he could have clearly said on TV that he was uncomfortable. There is no way Ruru could have done anything to him in front of so many people and cameras. So this entire “forced narrative” doesn’t make sense.
And even after the show, Yogesh praised Ruru so much in multiple lives and podcasts. If he truly felt forced, he could have spoken up there too. So this narrative simply doesn’t add up.
Nd we have seen already in the finale that how he tried to make a false narrative by talking about the photo which is 5 yrs old .
Now people are saying that there was no cheating between Akanksha and Yogesh. But there are too many things that cannot simply be coincidences.
First, there was the Delhi video of Yogesh and Gullu, and during the same timeframe, Akanksha and Gullu were also seen in another Delhi video. Second, when Yogesh was live, Subhangi was teasing him by asking, “Where are you in Delhi?” These things cannot all be coincidences.
Another thing — when Suzanne pointed out the Delhi issue regarding Akanksha, none of Akanksha’s friends like Sorab or Gullu strongly denied it. If Suzanne had been completely lying, they would have definitely reacted or countered her claims.
And Niharika is not someone who stays silent easily. She can fight even with hosts if needed, so why was she quiet at that moment? Why was she folding her hands in front of Suzanne? That itself looked suspicious.
Also, nobody had shocked expressions on their faces. If someone suddenly accuses another person of something so serious, people naturally react with surprise. But here, all their friends looked completely normal, without any shocking reaction. That also doesn’t seem normal.
Then there’s another point — Kaira herself mentioned the “ego boost” thing on the show. That again adds to the pattern.
There is also another video where Sorab, Suzanne, and Akanksha are talking, and during a conversation about tea and meeting up, Akanksha accidentally mentions “Yogi.” A person’s name doesn’t randomly slip out like that unless you spend a lot of time with them
There’s another video where Sorab asks Akanksha to speak about Yogesh, and everyone starts teasing her by saying things like, "kya pta reunion ho gya ” Again, too many such incidents together cannot simply be coincidences.
And until the photos came out, they weren’t even openly admitting whether they had met or not. So yes, cheating did happen.
Now, even if some people still think pre-planning is worse than cheating, Akanksha herself knew how painful such situations feel because similar things happened to her in the past. Then how could she do the same thing to someone else? If she is doing the same thing, then what difference remains between her and Ruru?
At least pre-planning happened before everything. But cheating after making commitments is even worse.
And where is Akanksha’s self-respect in all this? A guy who ditched you, joked about you on national television, and still you went back to him?
Even if we talk about Akanksha, if someone is emotionally vulnerable, you can still comfort them without resting your head on their shoulder and listening to romantic songs together. When you already know that person belongs to someone else, there should be certain boundaries.
Most importantly, if Akanksha and Yogesh didn’t cheat, then why don’t they have any proof to counter the allegations, unlike Ruru?
So after all these things, if people still cannot understand why this is considered cheating, then honestly, there’s nothing more left to explain.
Some proofs