It felt like my soul immediately recognized him. The connection started smoothly and lightly. It was so fast. We instantly clicked. We share the same plans, even business plans, interests, goals, things we watch, and even favorite food! He was like a mirror. Attached are the synastry and composite.
I am blue, he's red. Both 28 years old.
When I first met this man, it was attraction at first sight. We didn't get close instantly, but I already had this urge of wanting to get close to him, but I didn't make a move, anyway. So, a couple of weeks passed, we randomly got close. I did not do anything, it just happened. Neither of us planned it. The first time I talked to him, I instantly felt a connection. HE WAS A MIRROR. It was just supposedly a study night, but it turned out steamy. Yes, we did the deed. It wasn't in the plan but it just happened. After that, we became close unexpectedly, but no label. Our intimate relationship continued, with no label, though everyone around us has already suspected that we are in a relationship. The more I got to know him, the more I realized he's my type. Everything about him is EXACTLY my type. But I also became more afraid because falling in love wasn't part of the plan. We share the same interests, hobbies, plans in the future, even our views on marriage and building a family, even the business that we want in the future are the same. We are very much the same, and I found it unusual. We have the same wavelength. I feel comfortable with him. If I am having a mental breakdown, I just need him beside me and I would feel okay. At the same time, I am always emotionally available for him, which I am not to others. I always want to know how his day went and I always want to listen to him.
But sh*t happened and I ended everything on a random night. This connection is really confusing. Everyone around us can sense we have something romantic for each other but neither confessed. Now, I detached and it's been 5 months already but I keep dreaming about him. I cannot forget him. In fact, I really feel we are fated to meet and he is the one for me. I feel that I meet him for a reason and he's really the person for me. I have never been like this to a man and before meeting him, I was so sure I will not get married. I was a man-hater, but this man, made me want to settle down. I also like that he is not rushing things. He has his plans, so am I.
So, I want to know is, do you see long-term possibility here? I know this will be challenging.
Also, if I feel this way towards him, does he feel the same?
THANK YOU SO MUCH!