u/ResponsibleClient828

They wouldn't even interview me for my manager's job. So I quit.

They wouldn't even interview me for my manager's job. So I quit.

I've been working in the IT department of a local government in England for about 3.5 years. When I started, I managed to get the highest pay grade because I had 14 years of experience doing the exact same thing at another council. They made it clear from day one: there are no raises in this job, and promotion is the only way your salary can increase.

A few months into the job, my team lead left. The position went to my colleague, who, honestly, really deserved it, no question. Fast forward another 3 years, and my new manager decided to leave for a better opportunity. I had my eye on this job. I put in a lot of effort, stayed late, supervised new people, and was pretty much carrying half the team. You know the drill.

When the job was officially posted, I applied for it. The application was a single text box asking me to 'explain my suitability for the role'. I wrote everything: that I was already on the team, had about 17 years of experience in this specific field, had previous management experience, and had been taking on extra responsibilities for months. All the usual stuff you'd think would matter.

A week later, I got an email. I hadn't been shortlisted for an interview. The reason? I didn't use enough of their favorite 'keywords' in the application. Words like 'dynamic' and 'results-oriented' - just empty corporate jargon. Apparently, what I had done over the past 3.5 years was less important than the words I didn't write. I tried to discuss it with them and just asked for a chance to interview, but I was told it 'wouldn't be fair' to the other candidates who played the keyword game correctly. Unbelievable!

That’s when I realized experience alone isn’t enough anymore, you also need to know how to present yourself. Next time I'll be using tools to help me do this.

Honestly, I didn't even bother applying for other jobs. All I did was update my CV on a job site, and within a few days, I got 15 calls from recruiters. Every single one of them was offering a salary at least 25% higher than what I was making. I entered an interview, using the free trial of interviewman tool, and this was the best performance ever for me, and my confidence was high. Luckily, I'll start my new job next Monday.

Is it normal for office work to feel like this? I'm mentally exhausted

I recently graduated from college. I finished a general business degree and got a salaried job in reporting, forecasting, and data dashboards about 5 months ago. Honestly, those were the things I liked most in my classes, so I thought this job would be a really good fit for me.

I was genuinely excited to start working, especially with this employer because I'm interested in the industry they operate in.

But my God, this job is draining me in a way I didn't expect. There's almost no real work. Like, shockingly little. I ask my manager for tasks or projects, he gives me something that maybe takes 45 minutes, and then I go back to sitting there with nothing to do. There are several other people with roles similar to mine, and it seems like they have most of the actual responsibilities, but even they spend a huge amount of time talking, scrolling, or just sitting there.

Most of my day is spent staring at the monitor and pretending I'm doing something useful. I feel like I'm getting dumber. The boredom is awful to the point that it almost hurts. And it's a full workweek in the office from 8:30 to 4:30, so it's not like I can sneak off in my apartment or do chores or anything. I look at my phone when I can, but then I feel guilty, and it gets boring quickly too.

I don't know. I feel empty inside. Not motivated at all. The strange thing is that I miss my repetitive stockroom job. I'd rather go home with my legs aching and my arms tired than sit there with my brain fried from doing nothing. My mood has gotten really bad lately, and the weekend barely feels like enough to get me back to normal before I have to do this again.

I don't know what to do. I need the paycheck, and the pay is good, but I keep asking myself what I'm giving up in exchange for it. So yeah, that was basically my rant. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks.

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u/ResponsibleClient828 — 8 days ago

painful but true

“You’re the only creature that pays to live on Earth.”

Me applying for jobs after practicing salary negotiations on InterviewMan so at least the suffering comes with a better paycheck

u/ResponsibleClient828 — 8 days ago