Help with Work Suspension - I am struggling emotionally and need some advices
Hi Everyone! Before I jump in let me give you the background. I’m male and have been working at a firm for the last 6.5 years in Melbourne. I’m middle level management and my performance has been consistently good throughout.
In Feb this year it was alleged by a junior coworker that I was inappropriate with her and aggressive in my feedback. There were 4 allegations of which 2 were substantiated and 2 were not. I was given a final warning and some counselling from my work place.
I got suspended from work on Friday with an allegation that I have bullied / harassed someone at work. All my work laptops / emails etc were immediately turned off.
A few weeks ago I had invested 3500 as cash with a work colleague of mine. My partner found out and she suspected that I have gambled it away or used it for some random stuff which I haven’t. I requested this work colleague of mine to return the money at work through an online transfer despite giving him cash.
He said he’ll try but I insisted sighting my partners fears. He returned the money in cash and subsequently blocked my number saying plz don’t invoke me in your personal matters.
I’m not sure if he raised a complaint about me - I don’t know what to do.
I don’t love working here so I’m not scared about loosing a dream job. But I’m scared of having “fired” on my record.
I am not eligible for fair work because I cross the income threshold. I don’t know what to do.
Should I get legal help? There are messages I’ve sent him that he can use as proof
Should I just quit before cooperating with the investigation?
Should I contact him to see if it was him? I am so confused. I didn’t pressure or threaten him at all
Really lost for words.. I’ve been battling deep depression and adhd for the last 6 months and I’m not feeling great about my life right now