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No fans asked about Circa – as they have been at most of his shows. He brought up something along the lines of enjoying playing these songs again and then jokingly said something about getting to play with the whole band again “maybe… 👀”. It completely gave the vibe that they WILL be touring again, not just playing a few shows. 😭 I only ask because a lot of people have been saying he says different things at other shows about NEVER going on tour again. But last night he was definitely light hearted and playful and to me, insinuating it’s a possibility. He also looked so genuinely happy to be playing Circa songs again. Idk maybe I’m being too hopeful lol. What do you think?

side note does anyone know the name of the first song he played for the encore?

How likely do you think it is for this to happen with their shows in Philly and Santa Ana coming up? Are they testing the waters? I had tickets to see them for the very first time back in 2020 for their BSN tour that was cancelled right before they broke up. 😢 If it’s unlikely, I’m considering seeing them in Santa Ana even though I’m not a fan of festivals. I’m starting to think that I don’t want to regret missing what might be my only chance to see them.

*Edit to add: If this post offends you, please just ignore it instead of making comments that don’t even answer my question. It’s a reasonable thing to speculate considering their upcoming reunification, something that I never ever thought would happen! We all know by now that there is a lot going on behind the scenes concerning their mental health and relationships. It goes without saying that we hope they do what is best for themselves over anything else. There is also no harm in being excited about the possibility and sharing it with others who also hope to see them one day if it ever works out! ◡̈

Beginner as in I don’t hike, camp, or anything outdoors really. 🥴 I’ve always been a very cautious person, but I want to start experiencing a little more adventure!! What are some recommendations for someone just getting into the outdoors lifestyle? Looking for easily accessible, affordable, fun, relaxing experiences that I can often revisit.

Open to OC/LA/SB counties

I’ve been in therapy off and on for nearly 10 years now and while it is sometimes helpful, it hasn’t really done much for me. I’ve tried different therapists, groups, DBT, EMDR, etc., but nothing sticks. Therapists tend to tell me I am very insightful and motivated, as well as that I have a good grasp on what’s wrong and what needs to change. It almost seems like they’re saying “What do you need me for?”. But as most of us know, knowing and doing are two separate things.

Every time I’m back in therapy, I just feel like it’s such an inconvenience and a huge waste of time. I feel bad when I feel that way, because I try my best to engage, be open, and be vulnerable in sessions. I also like all of my therapists, but something just isn’t clicking for me.

The most impactful insight and change has come from experiences, connections with others, and educating myself–whether thats through books, videos, or just working out my problems on my own. I just worry sometimes that as a therapist, I don’t truly believe in therapy for myself and it makes me feel a little hypocritical.

I’m wondering two things:
Has anyone else experienced this? And is this something to even make a problem out of?