u/Sea_Extension8042

Hi, everyone. I'm curious about when the new generation of KZ men typically get married, and how KZ men behave in relationships. I've met a KZ man who vaguely expressed interest in me, but never formally asked me out (His colleagues told me that he likes me). He also doesn't engage in deep conversations with me. Yet he still shares interesting things with me on and off. I'm not an proactive person, so I rarely initiate sharing things with him, but I do respond whenever he reaches out to me. Sometimes he doesn't start a conversation for a whole week, and I assume we've naturally drifted apart and lost contact. But then, after some time, he shows up again out of nowhere. This lasts for years, and leaves me quite confused.

I see you say that he's shy. It's hard for things to move forward when one person is shy and the other isn't proactive. I've also thought about being more initiative myself, but deep down I know there won't be a future for us. Because I know that even though you might date foreigners, when it comes to marriage you still tend to lean toward someone from your own KZ background. That's why I chose to distance myself and play it cool from the beginning, even though I kind of like him...