My dude & prison chick(s)
Ok, I have a question and it’s sad I feel like I have to post on Reddit to figure this fucking shit out.
Super long I’m so sorry but I need advice from people experienced with how these dynamics for locked up females go.
My dude (it’s been a complicated 2 years but we are legit) has a “friend” in prison. I’m a jealous girl, I don’t normally date dudes that have been as involved with females as he has and it’s been hard. So I saw some letters from this chick and I won’t go into why I thought I needed to open them but there’s kinda been a lot of things leading up to that had me suspicious. Honestly I didn’t think they were still communicating. So I carefully opened one….
She’s talking to him like she’s getting released to his place and she says she loves him, she closed with, “your wifey”, she thanked him for the money he sent her, she told him how much she can’t wait to get her pussy ate and ya know the shit you’d write a dude that’s holding shit down for you when you’re locked up.
So naturally I was very fucking unhappy. I told him if I’m the stand in to just let me know and we can figure out whatever cuz I fucking love this dude and his dog. But I also don’t want to impede on some other chicks established shit ya know.
He still professes he loves me and wants me and she is delusional and he just doesn’t tell her anything to the contrary.
I told him to shut that shit down then, don’t let some chick think you’re her dude and all this shit if ur not.
But there’s just so much that doesn’t fucking add up and I want to believe him SO BAD but I still think I’m just the girl for now and per usual she has to accept it . Cuz she got 8 years in 2023 and was locked up before that for some time so she hasn’t had a lot of time out as an adult I guess.
How do I find out the truth? I thought about writing her but I’m not a meddler usually this looking at his private letters was crazy and I know it was wrong but ….. something seems not right but he makes sense and then it also doesn’t all add up.
Anyone have any advice for me?? I’m not super versed in lock up but I’ve known some people that have been so I’m not naive and I also know he had some other chick thinking she was coming home to him, cuz I was there (as his friend) when he opened the door and she was there, nobody knew shit. He’s just strange with chicks but since we’ve become legit, he has stopped keeping most of the girls in hos life that I know of. He’s putting in effort for me and I’m with him almost all the time. I still don’t know cuz I also have little self worth and …. Anyway please pass along some advice if you have it and please be nice to me and don’t tell me I’m stupid for staying with him …. A big part of me tells me to walk away but I guess I’m scared cuz I have nobody. If I need anything and just to know someone cares , it means something.