u/SheSoSoSleepy

So I'm trying to understand my family history and understanding if I am Métis. During my research I have learned about how problematic the MNO has been. I live in Ontario so disappointed on what I have read so far. I am aware of the issues so I want to make sure I am researching correctly.

I was wondering if my current biggest "proof" of being Métis is even proof at all.
My great grandfather and his 4 brothers fought in WW1. One of them had died.
He is on the National Métis Veterans' Memorial Monument which can be viewed on the Gabriel Dumont Institute, Metismuseum.ca.

Now from my understanding, I must be able to trace back to the Red River, Which I'm still digging on. That being said, does this memorial monument and him being on it help point towards me being Métis?

I have recently been diving into my ancestry and found family who are Métis. My mom in the past has said, “yeah, we are apparently Indigenous.” That was the furthest it got though until I started checking. The closest person I’ve tracked down who I have confirmed to be Métis is my great‑grandfather. Him and his brothers fought in WW1. One of them died, so I was able to find all his information, like being on the National Métis Veterans Memorial Monument. I then found our family tree and was able to track more information.

So now I sit and wonder what this means to ME. I want to learn my heritage and connect. I did not grow up Métis, so part of me feels like I’m trying to be something I’m “not.” I had a friend even say, “oh here we go, white girl finds out she is 1% something and runs with it.” That’s not at all my intention and made me feel gross even thinking it seemed like it. I guess I’m trying to figure out where the line is. Can I say I’m Métis? Should I? I was told “there’s no point.” And while it doesn’t change my life really, I think the point is beyond me. I don’t want to cut off something so important.

Is anyone else in a similar situation? And to those who grew up knowing they were Métis, what are your thoughts?

I am SO curious and want to learn my heritage and how I could honor it as well as be respectful. And if I read into things wrong and I don't count as Metis, Please let me know!