Conflicted about retiring soon at 75!
Female 74 years. Currently in terrific 12 year Exec Admin job that I love with no uncomfortable pressures or downsides. Married but only legally- no real partnership or companionship, but we do share finances. He has mental health issues and there is no plan for us to do things together in retirement. I'm planning to retire in October just prior to my 75th birthday, only because my body is starting to need more attention and care. I will miss the companionship of my many colleagues (large company) and the feelings of accomplishment and comraderie I get at work. As the time nears, I'm feeling anxious but (almost?) ready. I plan to stay in touch with a handful of friendly colleagues and hoping that helps with the transition. But they will still be working and I will not be. I need to remind myself that I really need to retire but part of me is resisting the change. This is not a change I've been *dreaming about*. My future is unclear. Ugh! I'm winging it. Money is not an issue as long as we are sharing.