Hi all, I tend to overanalyze every relationship, every partner and criticize them. But not only romantic relationships, even friends and co workers.
It seems like there’s no person in the world who would fit 100%, even though I think my girlfriend is an amazing match.
Thank you!
Hi,
I pulled this spread after asking how our relationship (my gf and I) is going to develop over the next few months.
Judgement - Ace Of Cups - Eight Of Swords - Nine Of Pentacles - Death - Three Of Cups - Two Of Swords - Queen of Swords - 9 Of Cups and Ace Of Swords at the bottom of the deck
I asked what death represents and what could be ending and what I’d learn from it?
Five Of Wands and Queen of Swords as in what’s ending
Ace Of Swords and Page Of Cups as in what I’d learn
Im not trying to be delusional, but I feel like this is a wake up call to finally stop my fears and let go of idealism that is not serving us in this relationship. To see the relationship as what it actually is and accept the uncertainty, instead of constantly focusing and waiting for the shoe to drop, when there’s no clear signs other than me spiraling and questioning everything.
Short story:
We’re in a stable and good relationship, but my anxiety and fear of losing her almost make me completely lose my mind to the point that I can’t enjoy a second with her anymore without ruminating about what ifs and nonstop anxiety around the relationship.
She’s the most patient and loving person I’ve ever been with and the relationship dynamic is the healthiest I’ve ever had too.
I’m very fear driven and I over analyze the relationship to the point of watching every step we take instead of actually feeling and living the relationship.
I would love for someone to look at the spread and maybe help me out a little bit to understand what’s going on.
Thank you in advance! 🤍