Do what God wants, then expect that He will help you want what He wants.
This one took me a minute to really sit with. Most of us are out here asking God to bless what we already decided we want. But what if we flipped it? Just do the thing He asked. Even when it does not feel exciting. Even when you would rather do your own thing.
Here is what happens. The more you obey, the more your desires start lining up with His. It is not forced. It is not robotic. Your wants actually change. What used to matter fades. What He values starts to become what you value.
You stop begging God to bless your plan and start realizing His plan is better than anything you were chasing. Obedience first. Then the heart follows. That is the order. We just keep trying to do it backwards.