u/Slow_Neat_5410

Hi, it’s very specific but I can’t find an answer about this. I used to get Brazilian waxes before the whole fistula journey started. I have had my seton for over 2 months now and I haven’t shaved or waxed at all because I was too worried to mess up with the healing. But is anyone waxing that area (butt and bikini)? Any experiences? I really want to get rid of the hair 😅

Very TMI question but to all the women in this community: how did you manage to be intimate while having a seton in?
I have the seton for 5 weeks now and I’d like to go out on dates but I’m worried about how it would work out…
- Is it sore to have sex?
- Do you remove the gauze before getting down to business? Could it drain on the bed then? 😅
- do you (or partner) notice smells?

I just want to have a normal-ish life 🙈 thanks!