Any 21+ ppl on campus?
Seriously where to find ya'll?! This is such a goofy question but I got finished with orientation and it was fun but the lack of maturity is alr overstimulating (not judging too hard) its my first time going to college and I'll be 21 once the fall quarter starts and I made a decision to work/grind my behind off for a few years before deciding on going to any university. Most freshman are fresh out of highschool and it's their first time being away from their parents so i'm not trying to judge too hard, but its just not a vibe. I'm sure I definitely just gotta get used to it. University was always considered optional not mandatory in my family, so I knew to take my time.
My experience and how I naturally communicate causes me not to wanna mesh with ppl who aren't around my age because its as if they have no developed genuine personalities. Some people are trying hard to act older than they really are and its funny actually being the one who is older because they all look like babies to me even though i'm considered young aswell 😭 I feel mean for saying this but its definitely true.
I want to be around a few people my age that have actually experienced things + people to go to bars and parties with lowkey. I do plan on joining clubs etc but is there anywhere on campus that most of you older students tend to congregate? I will literally add anyone is who is my age at this point lowkey. We can exchange insta's. Any older alt baddies?? Fashion baddies, queer baddies?! Any baddie hellurr?!? Like goodness. 😤 (Sorry i'm being overly childish.)
In all seriousness, If you guys have any ideas on where to find and connect with some older students/ppl and where they hang around tell me. My main focus is making friends with similar interests. Sorry for the rant.
Also, no hate to ya'll that are 18. Some of you guys are cool. Its just that people keep forgetting that 18 is genuinely not an actual adult and the maturity gap between an 18 and 21 yr old does actually exist.