u/SorasLibrary

[F4M] 25 | Germany/Europe | Looking for someone to build a genuine connection 💜

Hi! I'm Sora, 25 years old, from Germany.

I'm mainly looking to meet people from Europe because it's easier with time zones, but I'm also open to people from the US or Australia if we're both willing to put in the effort to make the distance work. I believe distance isn't the biggest challenge. Communication is.

I'm not looking to rush into anything. I'd much rather become friends first, get to know each other, and see where things naturally go. If we end up as close friends, that's already a win in my book.

Communication is probably the biggest thing for me.

Once I get comfortable with someone, I can become pretty clingy. To me, that just means I enjoy talking to the people I care about and sharing little moments throughout the day.

What doesn't work for me is one-sided communication where I'm always the one reaching out first. I completely understand that people get busy. I do too. But I always try to reply when I can, and if I know I'll be gone for a while, I'll let you know. I'd love someone who communicates the same way because mutual effort means a lot to me.

A little about me:

🎮 I'm a huge PC gamer. Right now I'm mostly playing Marvel Rivals, Fortnite, Overwatch, Infinity Nikki, MTG Arena, and Valorant. My game library is also full of games like Crusader Kings III, Civilization VI, Minecraft, Valheim, Dave the Diver, the Tomb Raider series, and many more.

One thing you should know:
I don't play League of Legends or World of Warcraft, and you're probably not going to convince me to start. 😅

🎵 Music is a huge part of my life. My favorite band is Ghost, and I'm completely obsessed with them. Outside of that, I listen to pretty much everything. Metal, pop, K-pop, 80s, 90s, early 2000s... if I like the song, I'll listen to it.

I also have a slight weakness for deep voices, British accents, French accents, and masked men. Simon "Ghost" Riley definitely isn't helping.

🖤 I'd describe myself as an alternative girl. My wardrobe is almost entirely black, and if I'm not wearing a hoodie, I'm probably wearing a Ghost band shirt. Summer is my biggest enemy because all my favorite clothes are way too warm. Yes, I know black isn't the smartest color when it's 30°C outside, but I'm committed.

⌨️ One of my more expensive hobbies is custom mechanical keyboards. I've already built one, and I'm seriously considering building another because apparently one is never enough.

🖋️ I also collect fountain pens. I currently own around 13 of them, and somehow my wishlist keeps getting longer.

📚 I enjoy reading, although I haven't done much of it lately because I have the terrible habit of wanting to do ten different hobbies at once and ending up doing none of them.

✍️ I'm trying to get back into journaling after falling out of the habit. If you journal too, maybe we can motivate each other.

🇫🇷 I'm currently learning French with Duolingo. I had French in school, so I have a basic foundation, but I'd love to become fluent someday.

📺 I also stream on Twitch from time to time. I'm incredibly inconsistent, but I genuinely enjoy it whenever I go live.

🍣 Sushi is probably my favorite food, even though I don't get to eat it nearly as often as I'd like.

A little more about me:

• 25 years old
• Around 5'4" (163 cm)
• Alternative girl
• Huge overthinker
• Love language: quality time

I also live with depression and social anxiety. Both have improved a lot over the years thanks to professional help, but they're still part of my life. I'm not looking for someone to fix me. I simply appreciate people who are kind, patient, and understanding.

What I'm looking for:

I'm bisexual, but I'm looking to date men.

I'm mainly looking for someone between the ages of 22 and 32. There's a little bit of wiggle room on either side if we really hit it off, but please don't message me if you're significantly outside that range.

I'd also really like to meet someone who enjoys gaming. It doesn't matter if we play all the same games, but I'd love for us to have that hobby in common. Gaming is one of my biggest hobbies, and I'd love to spend time with my future partner playing games together, trying out new ones, or even just hanging out in Discord while we're each doing our own thing.

These are preferences, not requirements, but bonus points if you:
• Are taller than me
• Have tattoos
• Have piercings
• Have a British or French accent
• Have a deep voice

At the end of the day, personality, communication, and effort will always matter more than appearance.

If you decide to message me, please don't just say "hi."

Tell me:
• Your name (your online name is totally fine)
• Your age
• What country you're from
• A little about yourself
• Your hobbies
• What you're looking for
• Whether you have Discord

I'd love to move over to Discord fairly quickly because Reddit chat honestly isn't my favorite.

If you've made it this far, thanks for reading. I hope to hear from you soon. 💜

P.S. If you don't hear back from me right away, don't worry! I may have gone to sleep, be at work, or just be taking some time to get through my messages. I try to give everyone a proper reply instead of rushing one, so if it takes me a little while, I promise I'm not ignoring you. 😊

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u/SorasLibrary — 13 hours ago

[F25] gamer girl, Ghost enjoyer & certified Discord yapper looking for something genuine 🖤

hey you there :)

My name’s Sora, I’m 25 and from Germany. I’m bi (though mostly into men) and mainly here because I’d really like to find someone genuine to slowly get to know and hopefully build something meaningful with over time.

I’m open to people from pretty much anywhere as long as we click and the time zones aren’t completely impossible 😭 Long distance honestly doesn’t bother me if the effort and connection are there.

I definitely wanna take things slow though. I’m not looking to speedrun feelings or jump into something super intense immediately. I’d rather become part of each other’s everyday lives naturally, spend time together, talk a lot, game together, sit in calls for hours, send each other random stuff during the day, all that cheesy cute stuff.

A little about me:

I’m a very quality-time oriented person and honestly kind of clingy once I’m comfortable with someone. I LOVE just existing together in Discord calls, even if we’re both doing our own thing in silence.

I can be kinda shy at first, but once I open up I talk a lot. Like… a lot 😭

I’ve also spent the past few years working on myself and my mental health, and while life is still a work in progress, I’m genuinely in a much better place than I used to be.

Things I’m into:

🎮 Gaming

Probably my biggest hobby right now.

Some games I currently play are:

* Marvel Rivals
* Overwatch
* The Sims 4
* Infinity Nikki
* Paralives
* Civilization VI

…and a bunch more depending on my mood because my attention span is awful 😭

I also occasionally stream on Twitch, even though it still scares me sometimes.

🎶 Music

Music is a HUGE part of my life.

I’m absolutely obsessed with Ghost and also love bands like Rammstein. If you’re already into Ghost or willing to let me drag you into the fandom, you immediately gain points with me 👻

📺 Other stuff

* watching YouTube
* Twitch streams
* random video essays
* binge watching shows
* reading (even though I’ve been stuck in a reading slump forever 😭)
* learning French 🇫🇷

🖋️ Fountain pens & planners

I’m really into fountain pens too and slowly building a little collection. I think I have around 11 right now? Which honestly feels both reasonable and slightly concerning 😭

I also use Hobonichi planners even though I’ve been SUPER inconsistent with them lately and keep telling myself I need to sit down and actually use them properly.

💤 Other hobbies

Sleeping, snacking, being chronically online, and sending people way too many TikToks/reels once I get attached to them.

Also kinda random but:

I’d really love to meet people who know how to code because I have a passion project I’d LOVE to work on someday, but I personally know absolutely nothing about coding 😭

So if you’re into coding/programming and maybe wouldn’t mind teaching me a few things or helping me figure stuff out eventually, that would honestly be really cool.

What I’m looking for:

Someone around 22–32 who’s:

* kind
* emotionally mature
* communicative
* patient
* into similar stuff
* and actually wants to spend time together regularly

Bonus points if you:

* love Discord calls
* are a little clingy too
* have tattoos
* are taller than me
* are passionate about something nerdy and can yap about it for hours

I’m hoping for a relationship eventually, but I don’t wanna force anything. I just want something real with someone I genuinely enjoy being around.

If you message me:

Please tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hey” 😭

Stuff like:

* your name
* age
* where you’re from
* hobbies/interests
* games/music you like
* whatever else you wanna share

I’d probably wanna move over to Discord fairly quickly if we vibe because I’m way more active there and Reddit chat kinda sucks 🫠

Looking forward to hearing from you 👋🏼 ❤️

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u/SorasLibrary — 1 month ago