Husband hesitant
We found out about my husband’s NOA about a year ago. I have definitely struggled with this news since it was my biggest dream to be a mom but my husband is ok with not having biological children.
We looked into adoption but it’s extremely difficult to adopt a newborn or toddler.
Labs we had completed about a year ago were all normal range but my husband does not want to proceed with mTESE since his uncle had one and their son has autism. My husband is afraid we might end up having a child with special needs.
I just don’t know what to do anymore and I feel like I’m just wasting time (I’m 38) and not making any decisions. Do I give him an ultimatum to do the mTESE so at least I have some closure on that or start accepting that I will have to be ok with adopting an older child.