I’m either gonna be a mad scientist or a prohibition era gangster. Maybe I’ll wear one of those big full body costumes tho.
Also I better not see anyone shaming people for “lame”, “revealing” or “sl*tty” costumes!!
Does anyone else feel like they’re too fat or ugly to date or get hookups here? I’m 23 M, 5’7, 240lbs, with a receding hairline and a round face (paired “perfectly” with a double chin). Every time I look in the mirror I just think about how ugly I am and that’s why I don’t get any. It’s crazy because I prefer bigger women, am not picky on aesthetic or body weight in a prospective partner, and there’s a lot of girls that i don’t approach because I know I’m wayyy below their league. even approaching less conventionally attractive women (i.e., women in my “league”) I still get rejected.
There’s so many skinny girls and dudes with 6-pack abs and I look ugly so what’s the point in me trying? Be honest, should I just give up until I’ve lost weight ~80-100 lbs of fat and gained muscles? Semaglutide? Maybe I need to completely rethink my wardrobe? Idk man.
More importantly, how am I supposed to be confident in myself (and especially my body) if I know that I’m not attractive? Maybe I missed something in terms of style or whatever idk. When I was back home my mom would buy me clothes and I’d wear whatever she got maybe that’s why I have an underdeveloped sense of fashion. I try to fake confidence but I feel like that never works.
Apologies if this post isn’t appropriate here I just kind of wanted a consensus of what Carbondalians think about my situation or if yall have any advice specific to this town. I’m a student so I can go to the rec center and workout, but I don’t know proper form or how to work many of the exercise machines.