u/Sudden_Confusion4556

I know we all dread them haha but honestly what are we doing when brides send a list then on the day feel overwhelmed and say “fu*k it just do whoever” and start calling families themselves / complain later when a group is missed?

Does anyone also feel like it’s not their job as a photographer to manage behaviour of the children of the couple or their guests? If the couple let them run wild and get dirty or say they don’t have to be in photos or they are in and out of photos as they like I just don’t feel that should fall on me if a family photo without them is missed if the couple says it’s ok for them to go play etc