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Giving up cause of Deer

I'm in a rural area of Virginia and I don't have spare money for fencing or electric wires and the few plants I did get this year have largely been eaten by deer

3 of my 4 Collard Plants

Severely damaged 3 of 4 tomatoes

Eat most of 2 of my 4 cucumbers

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u/SweetLisa02 — 1 month ago
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Anyone following the Therapy Jeff saga?

For those who aren't up to date, a therapist on social media who went by Therapy Jeff has made some pretty concerning comments about the recent news regarding a certain website that had a lot of views of people doing awful things to women. I'm being vague to avoid triggers and avoid giving it any more publicity. I saw a lot of his previous content and was very impressed with a lot he had to say but this new information makes me feel ill. I'm so glad that I have decided not to have any social media connected to my practice. There are so many of these influencers who are just one small step from saying something completely stupid and having their whole image tainted. Curious about other people's thoughts on this.

EDIT: For those who can't find the information, he recently posted this: Is there no dedicated national helpline for men who are scared they might sexually assault their partner? Or for anyone, for that matter? Like, if they’re experiencing an urge and are worried their fantasies are turning into plans, who can they call immediately?

Some people find this to be out of pocket for a lot of reasons, such as equating men who rape and abuse to those who have mental illnesses such as Harm OCD. Other people feel like this is centering the perpetrator and not the victim. Lots of criticism about this is because people who rape people generally don't have this much self awareness and it happens in a moment.

Since posting this, I have found other things that have come out about him regarding some videos and comments from his professional account about how he likes to be pleasured sexually. I did not know about those things when I made this post, all I knew about was the Threads post.

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u/SweetLisa02 — 24 days ago