u/Terrible-Doctor-370

We killed the grass that was here and laid paper bags down with compost and mulch on top. Then we let nature have its way. The problem is,my lawn didn't become magical like everyone elses seems to be. So I am assuming that people didn't just let armature take over? Did everyone plan a no lawn out and execute it? I have put out clover seed and creeping thyme but nothing sticks. I do have kids and two large dogs. I need some help because the dirt and mud is not doing me any good.( dont mind the disarray, we are just setting up the yard after winter)