Men To Men
There are a lot of philosophical or self-help books that transform men out there, but on a personal note, I think every man who really wants to be a good partner, a good father, and a person that other men can admire yet envy should read and practice the principles discussed by Niccolò Machiavelli in The Prince. This book teaches more about the life of a leader, which by nature translates into manhood.
Anyway, to soften things up, after that you should go through Meditations. This book is all you need if you are a father to sons especially because it teaches you how to raise men of honour, just by applying the teachings about Marcus Aurelius’ life and upbringing. This book changed my perspective on how I was personally treated as I was growing up. I was raised in a harsh state, tiichinzi varume hava cheme
At some point, I thought it was abuse that a boy in Grade 3 should be able to do his own laundry, make his bed, and clean the dishes for a family of five. But after reading Meditations, I started realizing that actually we were being taught to be reselient like we are turning to be.
All I am saying is that for men, especially people between 20–35, life doesn’t really make sense at this age. Everything seems like it is not working in your favor, but trust me, this is the period where a lot of our beliefs are tried and tested. I hope you don’t live a frowning life because of your circumstances, but instead take the time and treat it as training for something you always wanted. Just like how we suffer 13 years of our lives just to get O Level. Hold on, look around you, see how blessed you are, and try some of the principles in these books.