u/Unlikely-Virus1455

Trading ruined my life

Trading ruined my life. I’m 27, and managed to give $200k to the stock market since April 2025 (majority of it was lost in the past 3 months. I now realize that I wasn’t trading, I was simply gambling. Now I realized it’s time to exit the casino.

I fell into the hole of “add more and size heavier. You’ll get the losses back.” Only to lose it all again and keep repeating the cycle.

I’m broke now. I was on track to purchase a home and move out of my family’s house last year, and now I have $3000 in my savings account, and $400 in my trading account.

I feel crushed, absolutely stupid, destroyed, and feel like I betrayed myself. I can’t even bring myself to tell my mother I lost all this money that I spent the past few years saving up.

I’m not looking for “yeah you messed up” comments. Desperately looking for advice. I’m a great technical trader, but the psychology is what ruined me. Everytime something went red, I would average down, and say “it’ll come back. It has to” now here I am completely lost in life and genuinely don’t know what to do. I truly am ashamed of myself. Wish I never picked up trading to begin with.

As stated above, I have $400 left in my account. Should I just try to slowly rebuild? Or am I beyond cooked and just give up and become another statistic? Thanks in advance.

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u/Unlikely-Virus1455 — 13 hours ago
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Am I cooked?

I added another $20k to my account this week. Made $50k Monday, 21k Tuesday, got greedy and started scalping SPX, now I’m back down to $2k because I got greedy. I can’t add anymore money. Is there genuinely a way out of this hole? I think it’s time to quit but I’m so far in the hole to give up.

u/Unlikely-Virus1455 — 20 days ago