Both cats make me crash
Hi there! I adopted my cat a week before my boyfriend moved in with me with his own possessive cat. both cats are grey, one female and one neutered male. Both are rescue (male adopted as a baby and female adopted at 3).
Then we moved again in a bigger appartment since they split the first one in two and the female peed everywhere on our bedroom floor and some of our stuff.
Then, my boyfriend got really ill and had a machine in our bedroom keeping him alive up to november where he got a kidney transplant. Since he fell ill, male cat pooped EVERY SINGLE DAY between the 3 sand boxes. They also got into regular fights (female very easily scared and refusing to play and male wanting to play and sometimes fight) to the point she sometimes peed on herself because of how scared she was.
Then female began to pee beside our door every single day, then sometimes beside the sand box, and tonight, on our blanket as it touched the floor a little bit.
They got to the vet who didn’t see anything strange.
We don’t know how to make it stop, every day something happens and we have to clean and it’s very tiring. I love them though and couldn’t imagine getting rid of them. I feel guilty when I scold them.
Any advice?