More questions after meeting with the surgeon
Update: thanks for all the advice and support. We decided to seek out additional opinions and were able to get into MD Anderson next week and Mayo at the end of the month, both in Phoenix. We canceled the surgeries with the ENT. We both feel better about about this plan. Thank you all again!!
We met with my husband's surgeon today. He was diagnosed with HPV+ SCC at the base of the tongue. The surgeon wants to proceed with a neck dissection and then removal of the tumor. Based on palpation, he thinks there is one malignant lymph node. The surgeon said no PET scan is necessary before surgery. He works independently and is not sending my husband's case to a tumor board. Does this sound normal?
The surgeries are tentatively scheduled in 10 days for the neck dissection and 14 days later for the excision. While I appreciate moving quickly, I feel like we aren't getting all the information we need to make informed choices. The surgeon would not say how confident he was on whether clean margins could be obtained and that if they weren't, chemo and radiation would be required. He was not a fan of the de-escalation trials. We're trying to find somewhere to get a second opinion in the next 9 days, but I'm wondering if we should hit the brakes on the first surgery. Any thoughts or advice are much appreciated !