u/WebConfident2557

I got rejected for a senior promotion three times. They hired an external candidate

at $40K more than I was asking. I trained him.

I'd been a mid level engineer for four years at same company. Each promotion cycle my manager said I "wasn't quite ready" and gave me a stretch project to prove myself. I delivered each one. and got same feedback.

After the third rejection, they posted a senior role externally. The job description was almost word for word what I'd been doing for two years. I applied to it internally as a joke. HR told me I "didn't meet the qualifications."

They hired someone from outside a month later. His start date came through in our team Slack channel. His starting salary was leaked in a comp doc that got accidentally shared the next quarter. He was making $40K more than the number I'd asked for in my last review.

My manager asked me to "onboard him to the codebase." I did it. It took six weeks. He's a fine engineer. He's also six years younger than me with two fewer years of experience.

I left four months after he started. He still messages me on LinkedIn occasionally to ask questions about the system.

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u/WebConfident2557 — 8 days ago

What's a tiny daily ritual that disproportionately improves your mood?

I'll start: I keep a kettle on a timer so it's already hot when I get to the kitchen in the morning. Three second difference in real terms, but the feeling of "the day is already cooperating with me" sets a tone I can't replicate any other way.

I'm collecting these. What's yours? Doesn't have to be productive, just something small that makes the day feel friendlier.

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u/WebConfident2557 — 12 days ago