how should i go about reporting?
Tw: reproductive issues, SA, exposure
i went to the ER yesterday due to an abnormally heavy flow with severe pain and nausea. i needed to get a pelvic exam. the ER doesnt have stirrups so im on a urine bowl flipped upside down with a towel over it. already humiliating, right? but whatever, they made do with what they had an i appreciate it. as soon as the speculum was inserted a nurse opens the curtains all the way and my fiancé is just staring at me, as well as all the nurses behind the desk. she did not announce herself or knock and i could tell the doctor was quite annoyed by this since i had just explained i had sexual trauma from an assault.
now, ive talked to a lawyer friend and was suggested to call the AOD but when i called no one would transfer me or take my name. how can i report this? as much as i would feel guilty to cost someone their job, my private parts were shown to over 10 people without my consent and im having past emotions come up to haunt me and that just simply isnt ok.
EDIT : thanks to everyone that commented clarification/advice. i got into contact with the AOD and she told me she was mortified. i was told this specific nurse chooses not to knock and has gotten in trouble for this before. i am speaking to the advocate tomorrow as well.