Unpopular opinion: seducing/romancing is worthless
And now that I have your attention, what are some other hostile/personal schemes you frequently make use of? I find myself very rarely pursuing schemes other than swaying. I think a big part of it is the low success rates presented to me for murder, which is what I want to do most often. If my player is intrigue focused, I’ll definitely murder more liberally and I’ll abduct characters, but I still rarely seduce/romance. I definitely am not fabricating books or stealing artifacts, etc.
I can see a few instances where seducing is valuable, but it’s often just a risk of becoming a criminal for a potential child that isn’t of your house. One is if a neighboring ruler is very powerful, getting his wife or her pregnant could dilute the succession. The other situation is if you’re a woman, you could seduce someone with good inheritable traits. Otherwise, I only see it as relevant for roleplaying and the memes—which is maybe all it’s supposed to be for.
Idk. What are some of the schemes you find yourself doing most often?