u/YoohoLover

I have started an internship in Mep EE. I want to do the career but there’s one thing that I fear.

The massive responsibility. If the mech E or the plumbing system breaks nobody really cares. But if the Electrical system if I made a mistake and no other engineers catch it- how likely is it to start a fire and even lead to lives being lost or at least building being destroyed?

My worst nightmare would be to have people’s lives on my conscience.

Are most mistakes just going to cause power outrage and not fires? What about for hospitals if the power goes out then the patients die? How do you guys wrestle with this? It terrifies me honestly.

This is common knowledge but for some reason I never got it until today. I said something that my intent wasn’t bad imo but it came out as a very hurtful comment.

Gemini told me we judge ourselves by what we believe is our good intents and heart but judge others by how their actions made us feel.

I’m so guilty of this, how hypocritical!!

I used to think when with relationships/interactions only your intent matters.

If you technically did not “sin” against them and they are offended at you and upset that’s on them.

So wrong. I realized that your intent almost doesn’t even matter. Even if ur intent was fine but the other person is hurt and I’m just over here thinking “I did no wrong” or “I didn’t mean it” I’m not loving my neighbor at all.

I believe Jesus wants us to focus on the other persons feelings whereas I was just focusing on myself and making sure “I’m good” in my
Heart. wow