Need advice on how to get out this vicious cycle of IR
Hi everyone, Im a new joiner. Progressed from pre diabetes to T2D 3 months ago at 14 months postpartum. I did have GDM during pregnancy and prediabetes after delivery. Things went down hill quickly after weaning at month 11.5 and switching to keto with the hope of reversion prediabetes. Didnt work out, blown up to T2, not exactly sure why. Endo had no idea and didnt give much explanation other than the usual 'less carb, build muscle'.
Long story short, Im using a GDM to monitor my bg and can see that I easily spiked higher than 7.8 with anything more than 15gr of carb. As many people said before, the more Im scared of the spike, the less carb I eat to avoid the spike, and because of that I tend to tolerate less and less carb over time. I feel edgy, irritated and less energetic when not having enough carb, same as when my spikes happen.
For those who are alr successful at improving IR, could you pls help me with the below questions?
What is the bg range that you aim for after meal? I read we should aim for all time below 7.8 to improve IR condition. Mine is always go up to 8-9 mmol within 1 hour then go below 7.8 for a meal with just 15-20gr carb. Is that okay or must be below 7.8 all time to avoid diabetes complication? (Im still not on med, seeing endo soon to discuss if I should go on med or continue to try with diet)
Should I just ignore CGM and focus on good balance meal with complex carbs, food sequencing, exercise and build muscle? That means I will definitely spike and numbers may not be in good range. Im confused of what I should focus on. Should I focus on both keeping number im good range while building muscle (low carb diet) or should I just focus on building muscle without caring abt the daily number? (Not stuffing tons of bad carbs but eating more carb to feel energetic to exercise, which may spike to 9 or 10)
Im super depressed with the diagnosis and also consider to see a psychiatrist soon. Not sure Im depressed thats why my IR got worse or the IR actually causes the depression.
Appreciate your help.