does long distance relationship (ldr) work in college?
Hi! It's my first time posting here. I don't know what to do anymore, I need ate/kuya's advice po. I am an upcoming first year college student and i have a boyfriend na upcoming din.
Nakailang attempt of break-up na kami because I keep begging him not to. One of the reasons why he keeps pushing the break up is because there's a big chance na pumasok siya sa dream school niya though that school is like somewhere sa Metro and both kami taga province.
To be honest, wala naman po sa saaking problem yun. I'll support him, pangarap niya yun eh. Pero kailangan ba talaga ng break up? I know naman and sinasabi ko naman po sa kanya that I'm willing to wait and I am patient and baka nga mag-study rin ako somewhere near there if palarin (not very near but closer sa kanya than staying here sa province namin) since I'm considering magrecon kay UP because my dream course and school is in UP and may winawait pa akong result sa isang school.
But, to be honest I really don't know if I should continue convincing him na huwag makipagbreak-up sa akin kasi what if I'm being immature pala right now and I'm not realizing it? but at the same time, I really love him and I wanna fight for us.
We've been together for almost two years now and we also faced difficult problems together like ayaw kami for each other ng both families namin, self-issues, and misunderstandings pero nalampasan naman namin.
I know it's difficult naman po sa side niya cuz he's caught in between his dream and love. He's also telling me na ayaw niya ako iwan but, if it's for the practicality and betterment of each other then he's willing to set me free. But, I don't wanna be set free. I know I am capable of doing my studies well while being with him. He is also worrying na baka mang ghost ako, mag-cheat, and makipagbreak habang nasa malayo siya and we won't be able to talk in person because of the distance. But, I swear it won't happen kasi I know that I really love him.
I don't know what to do anymore please give me an advice. Should I continue holding on to this relationship or should I just stop and just focus sa upcoming college life ko? Did someone have a similar experience to this? If meron, ano po ginawa niyo? This is so difficult huhu. Thank you po. Please be kind.