u/axojii

Relatively new tank, what do we think?

Relatively new tank, what do we think?

Got back into the hobby after a long time. Forgot just how much joy it brings to watch these little guys do their thing. Currently houses 20 micro rasboras, a handful of cherry shrimp, 8 pygmy corys and a rabbit snail. Would love to know what people think!

u/axojii — 9 days ago

Looking for my best friend's grave, Rayton area. Have some questions.

Hello Reddit, I have a slightly odd question.

In 2016, my best friend Cathy took her own life . She was 16 at the time, I was 15. She had recently moved from Belgium to South Africa. After some digging, I found out her funeral was arranged by RBO Funerals, and she was buried at the Rayton Cemetery. (Yes, I've been looking for 10 years. Her family gave me no info other than the news of her passing.)

I'm really grasping at straws here, I know. I'm a funerary assistant student, so I know how grave concessions work here in Belgium, but obviously have no idea how things function on the other side of the globe. Over here, a person who is buried gets 10 yrs of mandatory grave rest, meaning that for the first 10 years after their burial the relatives do not have to pay to keep the grave standing. After that, it's either pay up or the deceased will be exhumed and the grave 'recycled.'

My question now is if I were to go visit her, would her grave even still be there? Is it even still worth it? I have no clue if her family took out a concession on her grave or how long for. I'd give anything to properly say goodbye.

Thanks in advance.

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u/axojii — 3 months ago