Leave behind life to work at Series A in SF?
I've been spending a lot of time thinking about this and wanted to get opinions
Graduated college last year, started a local job paying 160k first year in relatively lower cost of living area. I'd be living with friends and close to family - this is something I'm keeping in mind in this decision as it is probably the last year these friends will all be in the same area together. Additionally, in this role I'll have time to work on active side projects + recruit for better places
In SF, the startup is also paying 160k plus some equity. I'm confident the learning + career growth opportunities here will be valuable, and despite being a startup there will still be mentorship opportunity. My read is that the startup is doing well but isn't positioned to be an insane rocketship. The WLB will be reasonable but I will definitely have less time for side projects and recruiting prep. Also, I know the 160k won't take me as far in SF but since this is early career should I even be considering money that much?
Curious to hear thoughts about whether this opportunity is worth it. I'm torn because I value the social connections I have at home but am highly invested in my career growth at the same time