u/belzebubbz

I posted previously in here about my roommate. To shorten it, she's very loud and untidy and unclean, her cats fur is everywhere and she doesn't clean up after it. Puts her cats poop in our general waste bin etc etc.

I finally found a new place to move to and I'm finally going to get out of this shit hole, but before I even told my roommate I was moving out, she had her coworker move in to replace our roomate who had just left. She never told me who she was, when she would be moving in or that we even had someone moving in. I never got introduced to her or anything. I'm also almost certain this new girl has brought a cat with her.

I had my own pet cat in the house that only lasted for a month because said roommate kicked up a fuss, cursed and yelled at me and joined forces with our ex roommate (also her friend, college mate and coworker, shocker) and told my landlord lies about my cat and she told me to remove my cat from the property and if I wanted to bring him back I would need written consent from all roommates. I never received any warning about this girl moving in, let alone her cat.

On the noise note, I texted her and asked herself and the new roommate to keep it down as it was 1:30 am and they had their bedroom door open and were talking to eachother in there for an hour and a half very loudly, preventing me from sleeping.

She then said "we're back in our rooms now. Our new roommate is wondering when you'll say hi - do say hi when you get a chance." As if I'm the only one who can speak? She could have just as easily introduced her to me or even said hello to me herself.

Should I bring up these points with the landlord or is it futile now that I'm leaving?

I've put up with this plus so much more behaviour from her and I'm genuinely so sick of it. I want to he petty and get my lick back but at the same time is it even worth the hassle?

I'm so pissed off.

I posted previously in here about my roommate. To shorten it, she's very loud and untidy and unclean, her cats fur is everywhere and she doesn't clean up after it. Puts her cats poop in our general waste bin etc etc.

I finally found a new place to move to and I'm finally going to get out of this shit hole, but before I even told my roommate I was moving out, she had her coworker move in to replace our roomate who had just left. She never told me who she was, when she would be moving in or that we even had someone moving in. I never got introduced to her or anything. I'm also almost certain this new girl has brought a cat with her.

I had my own pet cat in the house that only lasted for a month because said roommate kicked up a fuss, cursed and yelled at me and joined forces with our ex roommate (also her friend, college mate and coworker, shocker) and told my landlord lies about my cat and she told me to remove my cat from the property and if I wanted to bring him back I would need written consent from all roommates. I never received any warning about this girl moving in, let alone her cat.

On the noise note, I texted her and asked herself and the new roommate to keep it down as it was 1:30 am and they had their bedroom door open and were talking to eachother in there for an hour and a half very loudly, preventing me from sleeping.

She then said "we're back in our rooms now. Our new roommate is wondering when you'll say hi - do say hi when you get a chance." As if I'm the only one who can speak? She could have just as easily introduced her to me or even said hello to me herself.

Should I bring up these points with the landlord or is it futile now that I'm leaving?

I've put up with this plus so much more behaviour from her and I'm genuinely so sick of it. I want to he petty and get my lick back but at the same time is it even worth the hassle?

I'm so pissed off.

She's always on her computer playing video games past 11pm screaming and shouting to the point I can make out every word she's saying, and she leaves her bedroom door slightly ajar for her cat. She showers at 1-3 am and my bedroom is right beside the bathroom so I can hear everything. I'm so fucking sick of all this but no one does anything. I've been nothing but nice but I'm at my wits end.

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I work 39 hours a week most weeks and my job is physically and mentally exhausting, so I cannot be cleaning up after 3 people and a cat.

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What do I do??

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I'm entering a part 4 tenancy on this property on June 28th 2026

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Okay so for some context, I've been living with this particular roommate for a year this month. At one point she moved in her boyfriend without telling any of us or even the landlord and was really hypocritical when I got a cat (she has one in the house) and told the landlord and got my cat removed, (she also screamed, shouted and CURSED at me when this happened) so I did the same with her boyfriend.(Telling the landlord and getting him removed)

That's not the only problem, she never ever cleans around the house, even after her own cat. There's fur EVERYWHERE. All over my clean clothes left out to dry, all over the stairs, you name it. She puts her cats used litter into poop bags and puts them into our general waste bins IN THE KITCHEN.

The bins are always overflowing and the house is always "dirty". As in there's always dust and fur everywhere. Nobody cleans up after themselves. I always keep all areas tidy, clean and tidy everything, hoover, sweep, mop, wipe etc. I've sent messages into our group chat time and time again asking them to please pull their weight. This roommate responds with "yeah no problem, l do a spring clean". She does this once and never keeps on top of it after that. Her idea of cleaning is one big spring clean once a year...

Now she's after asking me to give a heads-up when I have my boyfriend over (she never does the same with hers, let's him stay in the house when she's gone and I often get a fright cause I think I'm alone) and even once let her sister stay over for a whole week to look after her cat and gave her sister the key, which my landlord said she was not allowed to do.

She even had a camera IN THE SITTING ROOM to watch her cat at one stage (I reported this to my landlord and had it removed).

I've given up on cleaning now too because I'm the only one doing it and the only one buying all the supplies and fairy liquid for cleaning dishes etc (oh yeah, the draining board is always full too). She leaves expired food in the fridge.

She's always on her computer playing video games past 11pm screaming and shouting to the point I can make out every word she's saying, and she leaves her bedroom door slightly ajar for her cat. She showers at 1-3 am and my bedroom is right beside the bathroom so I can hear everything.

I'm so fucking sick of all this but no one does anything. I've been nothing but nice but I'm at my wits end.

I work 39 hours a week most weeks and my job is physically and mentally exhausting, so I cannot be cleaning up after 3 people and a cat.

What do I do??

I've been desperately trying to find a new place for months but I'm having 0 luck. I genuinely can't live with this cretin anymore

I'm entering a part 4 tenancy on this property on June 28th 2026

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