VBAC advice/encouragement please
Currently 20w with my second. My first was born at 37 weeks due to preeclampsia and after 23 hours of induced labour and failure to progress further than 3cm, had a C-section. This was an extremely traumatic birth given I felt the entire surgery because I only had an epidural, not a spinal, and clearly it wasn’t working fully to begin with.
I just got home from my OB apt where he is pushing for a planned C-section this time around but will support my decision either way. His main reasoning being the intervals between births (my firstborn will be 20 months when this baby is born… I always thought it was 18 months between births but maybe I’m wrong?)
I want nothing more than to be able to have a VBAC but I’m soooo discouraged. Has anyone had a similar situation with a successful VBAC? My firstborn was also wedged in my pelvis but he has a huge head and I’m only 5’4” … dunno if this babe will have the same issue or not. I also feel like my odds of success would be higher if I go into spontaneous labour and don’t need an induction but that requires my blood pressure to stay normal which is obviously out of my control.
Would love to hear some encouragement/positive stories with similar situations please … so upset after today and feel like I need to just schedule the C-section to avoid what happened last time but it hurts my heart to not even be able to try :(